Not to sound cocky however as a girl I know one thing is different to for females and males in regards to our initial stages in courtship or when meeting a potential lover... you guys can look good, maybe even hot but out in public especially in a club scene or bar scene, there are so many good looking guys, so many handsome faces, sexy bodies and dress styles, it's like a conveyor belt in some kind of factory, pumping out product after product, that it becames blurred, all the same... and yes physical/good looking, it's a great start, but because we girls have so many options, it's hard to know which of these beauties are true gold and which of them are hallow inside.
So instead we just either say to ourselves, screw it, lets have fun with my girls, I'm here to dance...or we might hook up with one of these hotties on the dance floor, but then later, it will be awkward if he wants more time, it's more of a kiss and go type thing, just fun. Sometimes regret, sometimes not. But we didn't need to work for it, it was easy, we got a kiss from some random guy without any real effort, he hooked up with me because he was physically attracted to me, he didn't know anything about me as a person, is that his standard for choosing a girl? It gets confusing, so we move on, figuring there's plenty of other guys out there, we'll meet that great guy we want to spend more time with tomorrow or on another day.
So yes! one thing is different to for females and males in regards to our initial stages in courtship or when meeting a potential lover... we just need to look physically attractive to get your attention, that's all that matters to you guys, atleast in the beginning and sometimes for a long time after. You guys need to pull out some other kind of show, something in your behaviour, something that will separate you from the boys.
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