I met a girl probably the most attractive girl i would ever have or had the opportunity to meet. I talked to her in the bar for about 15 minutes. Some guy who she used to hook up with saw us talking and apparently, he knew me because he saw me do a music set at an open mic and was all praising me calling me the man etc... It was obviously just him trying to be friendly to me to keep me from hitting on his ex girl. sorry bro but no can do. Anyway, I asked for her number thinking everything went GREAT and she said no! I couldnt believe it, then I realized she said no because it was in front of this guy and she walked away. 20 minutes later, im about to leave she grabs me and apologizes saying shes sorry she left but she had to get away from that guy. I was on way out the door with my ride waiting outside so I got her number quickly and have been texting her for a few days. She has been responding to every text, but without giving any follow up questions like, how about you? or tell me about you etc... normally, id say okay one word answers means I need a different approach. So I texted her making fun of her and such and then i finally asked her out to sushi for the next day. She said no that she couldnt because shes going to get art supplies tomorrow but she will another time. OBVIOUS bullshit but of course I cant be like BULLSHIT, THAT TAKES ONLY AN HOUR I HAVE ALL DAY!!!!! So I just responded, oh jerry artorama? that place is pretty much famous. then i asked if she had flex passes for food cuz shes in college, im a senior. She said no, and then asked cant your brothers take you out for one of those? ( im in a frat). I said yes but they are not as easy on the eyes to look across. Unless of course your one of those girls who chew with their mouths open and devour your plate.
She says yeah haha i never use utensils. so im like now ill never get sushi with you. i bet you pull fish out of the ocean and take chunks out of them while you swim... thought that was funny, she said haha i cant help how im raised you know. i then said thats disgusting. she said hahahhaha kidding and got a little insecure like i believed her. Probably not the brightest girl but too hard to tell at this point, def didnt seem too dumb.
I called her acouple days later, she didnt answer. I text her, oh man are you one of those girls who are too afraid to talk on the phone still?
she says no lol im out and its loud.
I say, come for a blunt ride when your done with the bar ill pick you and your friends up. She says, i love blunt rides! ill text you when im leaving. of course i know shes lying and no text is given.
I got confused here. so the next day, I thought okay no longer can i keep asking her to hang out i need something more. so i text her mid day, hey did you know turtles breathe out of their butts?
she says yes actually, are you just reading stuff off of twitter? I said no i dont even have a twitter, I lost my phone once and asked everyone to text me their number and a fun fact so im loading with useless information and random questions. Why do you like boring typical questions? im sure you dont care THAT much what my major is. I asked her a couple more random questions like, if you had a free trip to space but the catch was that you would need to skydive and down in a space suit and parachute down to earth, would you? i thought it was a great random question, but she just said haha probably not. once again, never with a repsonse getting me to talk but always her responding.
I texted her today, what are you up to tonight after a couple other texts. She said im at teds (the bar where I met her). I said cool im just chillen with some of my buddies at my place, are you down to chill after?
She says I cant i have a 930 tomorrow sorry!
I say how about a quick blunt ride, Ill pick you and your friends up. Your friends will fall in love with me, you might get a bit jealous but its okay. And then Ill bring you straight to your place.
She says haha maybe we already got some man to do that job. ill let you know a bit later.
I say "yaaaaa sure you will...
I know the game lol.
She says haha.
thats it. This is an endless circle where i think she will continue to respond for the attention but never actually go through with it but its hard to say. WHAT DO I DO??? and what did i do wrong? she def has tons of guys going for her so i understand where shes coming from. But seriously like whats the next step... if i ask her out again, itll be the same thing and I will get a fake maybe or a yes flake.
My Options:
1)keep texting her funny stuff til she cracks and starts getting more involved with her responses and more interesting in ME, and not ask her out again, just keep doing it for days so she spends more time committed to me, even if its through texting only.
2) Shes at the bar a decent amount. I dont that for sure but she was the last 3 times i talked to her. So go to the bar and hope to run into her by ACCIDENT and game from there, but even then I can make her laugh do all the thing I think are right and get the I cant tonight but next time answer. Or maybe just meet her at the bar, talk and go for a kiss at some point in the night. Say something like, "hey so weve been talking forever, and we obviously get a long. Lets just kiss and see if its magical. If its not, then ill probably have to say goodbye. IF she says yes or lets me go in, we kiss and im good at it, so i can be like, ehh not that great and walk away 2 steps then turn around. and that would put me a step further.
3)Call her out. say something in a text like, hey so im not going to deal with this. Your pretty cool but like i said before, I know the game, and im done playing it. your welcome for the attention though, I do have a way at making people feel better about themselves and raising their self esteem. soooo.... BYE!
4) wildcard, you tell me!
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