Ok, someone help me to try and understand this bullshit. This is worse than flaking...

Little over a week ago, this girl (HBQuite) messages me on POF. My profile is straightforward that I'm looking for sex, so our conversation is quick and to the point. I get her number, text her for a day or two, then drive over to her place a week ago. She turns out to be even cuter than her pictures made her seem. We sit on her couch and make small talk for 15 minutes. It's painful because the girl just does not talk. AT ALL. So to end it I kiss her and we start making out. She's completely passive, except she pulls away a few times to tease me. We make out for a while and even though I'm physically escalating, she just sits there with her hands in her lap. Only when I grab her boob does she suggest we go to her bedroom.

So we do, and we make out some more. I took her behavior on the couch to mean that she just wants to get right to it, so I start rubbing and fingering her right away. Eventually we fuck, and it's great. Won't go into explicit details, but I could tell she enjoyed the hell out of it.

That was a week ago. We texted a couple times since then and made plans for Tuesday, but she said she was on her period. So I text her tonight to make plans for Saturday. She invites me over tonight, and I take that to mean her period is over. I get there and she leads me straight to the bedroom. Same scenario as day 1 repeats.

Except as I'm fingering her, out of nowhere she gently removes my hand from her pants and says "The mood just isn't striking me" (weird, because she was moaning not a few seconds before that).

I have absolutely no idea what the fuck that's about. She turns to watch a movie and I doze off trying to figure it out. I wake up half an hour an later, tell her No offense, but if she's not in the mood I'm going to leave. On the way out, I ask if she was okay or if she meant something else by "not being in the mood." She just says "No". So I say I'll see her later, and leave. I don't think she even said goodbye.


Can someone PLEASE help me figure this one out, because it's driving me fucking bonkers!!

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No offense, but people who put "just looking for sex" on pof are in my opinion the lowest of the low. Most girls say they won't even respond to guys who put that in their profiles, so if you do, then it means you are either desperate or failing to grasp better strategies for gaming women online.

My guess is that she started having problems dealing with degrading fact that she is just some internet stranger's slampiece. Clearly she has no game or self-respect since she put herself in that situation, and something in the back of her mind is telling her "This isn't right".

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I got one of these except mines from Okcupid. I see her maybe once a month. When the mood hits for her or when I push the issue that I want to grab a piece. I don't even know her last name and that's the way she wants it. We just fuck and have some light banter. But mostly fuck. Keep the sex good and make sure she is getting mind blowing orgasms or she will have little reason to call you. Keep up with the touching and remember girls like to get warmed up. Make her in the mood. Maybe start with a back rub. Read from a sexy book. Something like 50 shades of gray.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

So in the meantime, should I freeze her out a week or only a day or two and then go about as if nothing happened? And when I do, should I push for meeting as usual, or just talk and not mention meeting at all?

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I would not call it a freeze out but don't go crazy trying to see her when she is not in the mood. Its her game right now until you make her melt.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Okay... I'll give it two or three days, text and chat her up a little, but not try to see her until the day after that. Will update how it goes.

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Lol same happened to me today. I was fingering the girl, she pushed her ass towards my dick, I still had boxers on and she had underwear. Little later she is like nothing happened.

The truth anyway is women dont just want to be fucked, they want emotions, so if she is good looking you give her some. Dont just thrust and then wipe the sweat off your forehead. The most important part is what happens before sex (women judge sex based on their emotions about it, so even if you dont have Sex Beasts Tricks vol 69 with you, you can still make it fantastic, orgasms are also more in their mind), I noticed that it was quite awkward between you two at the start, but clearly can see it wasnt only your fault.

Kiss around her body, cuddle, sniff her hair and tell she smells good, tell her you love the way she looks at you.

That kind of shit (which only happen in movies lol) really work, if you say it with meaning and smile. If you just say them, you will ruin it all. Say it right, she will be like "Who is this guy". NEVER HURRY THE FOREPLAY, UNLESS BOTH ARE HORNY AS FUCK WHICH MEANS SHE RIPS YOUR CLOTHES OFF AS YOU ENTER HER APARTMENT.

100% this.

I find it hard to believe that someone comes on a PUA forum and admits to having a POF account strictly for "intimate encounters" LOL

It really is low. I'd get STD tested bra

Actually I usually do this all the time because I love foreplay. Only reason I went right into it this time is because I thought she wasn't really into the foreplay before. Hard to tell since she never says fuck-all, but I guess I was wrong, I'll go back to taking it slow next time.

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UPDATE:

Texted her today. Here's the convo:


ME: Congratulations

HER: What for?

ME: I was just thinking of you. Congratulations =)

HER: Haha got ya

ME: What crazy stuff did you get up to this weekend, sugar muffin?

HER: Supercross last night... Heading into work now have a good one!

ME: You too love


I wasn't expecting her to respond, so that's a plus. She's never cut the conversation short like that "have a good one"... but to be fair she does usually work at 2 and hardly texts during that time.

I figure give it a day, then get back to it and set something up again.

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Nah, it's fine. I got the idea from an old thread in the Online Game section here. I started out testing it, thought it was shit, then it started getting good if rare responses. Helps me cut through the bullshit cuz when they bite, they bite hard. I still use a normal profile though, because it's generally more well-received for obvious reasons.

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I got one. But I dont claim to be A Pua. Just honest.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

I guess "good" is in the eye of the beholder.

Your hb10 is probably most of our un worthy 4s


Any girl who resorts to getting laid via intimate encounters is literally bottom feeding. If you're having trouble keeping a cum-dumpster interested, it's probably time to learn some real game.

ill just say that he is honest and thats good atleast. hell he still managed to get the p from the pof girl. kudos

Cool story, bro

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