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Girls are more socially intelligent than us guys they know what's up whenever we approach.
Doesn't matter what opener you use, if she pings back you know she is interested.
This.
For example. A gay guy walks up to you. You know hes gay because hes not trying to hide it, in fact, he had a super gay walk and made lots of eye contact with you before coming up to you. Once hes in front of you however, he just leans casually on something and smiles, saying
"hey, hows it going?"
you see where im going with this?
Its not hard at all for a girl to tell when we as men are intrested. So if its a girlfriend you want, yeah you really just need to grow a pair and lay your cards on the table. If shes interested then she'll let you know. Otherwise its an ocean full of fish out there.
One night stands on the other hand...well...thats what pick up is REALLY for imo...
Exactly my point. Now put yourself in that situation, and the gay guy says "Who lies more boys or girls?" - sounds a lot more creepy then "Hey how's it going"? - chances are even with a gay guy who you clearly aren't attracted to at all, you'll probably respond. That being said, this is an extreme case where the gay guy has no chance of sparking attraction, but with women once you've opened you can transition and build rapport.