Ive had a lot of reading on pua sites for 3 or 4 years, and done a lot out in the field of my own.

This chick has been bugging me, so heres my first post.

Im 24, graduated college last year and started my own business for the past 11 months, which required me to move 3 hours away. I come into my college town for a long weekend about once a month, and party hard with the towns best group, its a city of about 500k people. Im a pretty popular dude, good looking, well dressed and versed, and some girls I have dated say they are scared of me because I am really intense in some aspects.

Thats the personal bio:

Anyway,

I run into this chick at the bar whos boyfriend used to be an old acquaintance. I ask her where her bf is, she tells me they have broken up, at least 3-4 months ago. I want to F close her, she tells me how much she thinks im handsome, wonders what I am doing, shows a ton of interest, kisses me, etc. I cant take her home because im staying with another girl in town, whom I am with that night. The next day, I leave town for the month.

A month later, after texting her on and off (really responsive), my crew is out partying on sat night, I run into her, and I take her back to my buddies place, to crash in the spare bedroom. She wants to bone, but we are both too drunk, and I def wont go all the way for the first time with a girl, unless I feel like im going to kill it, so I wait. She tells me how bad she has wanted to get with me since we met (about 4 years ago). We wake up the next day, she begs me to stay another day, and we go see a movie. We hold hands, sit close, but no kiss. When we are sober, she acts pretty nervous around me, and seems kind of self conscious (she is a hb8, and her parents are loaded to the max). I drop her off, then leave town the next morning. Girl is cute and has a lot going for her, so I obviously take a liking toward her.

Now comes the weird ass part. I get back to my town that I am currently living in, and want to text her (3 days later) to stay in touch. Usually I would call, but I feel like it may be too awkward. Chick is now taking forever to text me back, and is kind of answering with not to the point responses, like i said "I would be back in a few weeks and she says", "niicee ". Im like wtf, and it usually takes her 2-12 hours to text back, vs before it was 2min-1hour. I dont know if she is shit testing me or what. Nothing weird went wrong face to face this last weekend.

I cant really tell if the girl is:
A: really stupid
B: playing hard to get
C: super shy
D: pissed/self conscious because i didnt bang her
E: coming off her breakup of a few months ago
F: something else??

My plan is to just not talk or text her, until I go back in 2-4 weeks. If she initiates convo, fine, I will go with that. She knows Im busy, so I can blow off not talking to her for a month due to work.

Just kind of curious of others insight and similar experiences. It is kind of pissing me off because I could see this going somewhere, but the long distance make it hard to run typical game, and test the waters.

Best,
-seehorse

seehorse, she is definitely upset that you didn't sleep with her. She may also be upset that you seem to come and go without really caring about her.

Shit-tests via text messages are usually pretty long, trying to elicit a certain response. If she is being short, 9/10 times it means she's pissed. I get the same response out of an ex-gf that I slept with a few times after the breakup and never called her back.

Most likely a shit-test man. but it could also be that since she slept with you (not sex, just same bed) shes lost some interest. she might feel like since she got you into bed before she can do it whenever and inevitably you'll have sex at some point. I could be totally off on that, but its just food for thought.

Thanks for the responses from the two above, gives me different vantage points to think about.

I think it could be a myriad of things. I talked to her a bit via text, and she seemed to warm up some. I think we are both used to the position of a buyers market, and she wants to show her worth. She is pretty high class and I believe she is used to being put on a pedestal. I could care less. As 50 cent said "chase the paper it come with that shit."

Im going back to the city superbowl weekend, or the weekend after for a meeting, then some partying. Going to surround myself with a bunch of people and have a good time. Im a betting man, and I bet she pops up out of nowhere.

Keep you posted on what happens.

I could not count the times a girl turns cold because I didnt close her when I could..girls would tell me that they like my face..its pretty and all the indications are present but I do nothing.and they immediately left ...my friend doesnt take no for an answer..I see him pull girls to the bedroom by their hair and they seem very angry..but when they finish ,they seem happy and they start calling him every minute..Im thinking about this day and night but whenever a girl seems unresponsive I would not advance so I dont look like an animal...
you slept with a girl in the same bed and you didnt fuck her????man its obvious that its your fault...didnt you read about the girl's resistance???the sign are there...now I think that it may take some time for her to be responsive again,but I she feels that you will act the same way as before,she would get cold forever.. and she didnt become responsive again next her...but always try tilll the end.