I'm bad at comfort, Please give me ideas or possible changes for the below. I took this from another reply of mine.
But I've been collecting a bunch of my life's stories, they're on flash cards.

Phone calls: I've tried Mehow's Phone game, doesn't work for me, I DLV myself by calling too much. But I saw Style's Phone game, I might try it. basically, don't call for a week or as long as you can go without calling. And when you do, just invite her to come along to something you already had planned to do anyway. (note; you need to have nearly swept her off her feet and know she F ing remembered your meeting). Call her, don't say her name, say something that brings her back to that moment again, NLP technique (anchoring) I.e. "I'm callig to serve you the divorce papers, and omg, what the hell are we gonna do about the cats?"

or if you can, do mystery's time bridge (schedule a meeting before you get the number) so no phone scheduling needed. I can't seem to do this right, maybe cuz I need more stuff going on in my life and I should know about them way in advance? watever...

Here's my DHV / Comfort Stories for comfort phase C1-2-3.

try to Vibe a lil before these so you don't come off as a crazed extrovert.

let her words be spinning off points into these stories and lead in with stuff like:

Oh that reminds me...
speaking of which...
That guy reminds me of this time...
You look like you would have been a dork in high school...
Who was your first crush?
Who's one person you'll wish you had spent more time with?

My stories:

1. My leaving my mark in China.
2. Hellman st. Whore house
3. Vulnerability story(EMT days, sigh*, Dog dying story, tear*)
4. Beating up a bully in HS.
5. My first crush story
6. Prom story
7. my luggage fettish (MM)
8. Grounding Routine-What I wanted to be as a kid and how I ended up where i am today...

and routines (to fill up the boring gaps or make things interesante)

Question game
cube
strawberry fields
cold reads
palmistry
thumb wrestling to keep BTA high

Lotta chase cycling and mirco looping-watever that means
increased Kino

I'm not sure but I think we need to keep the Negs on a down low, and not too much Cocky funny.

Anyone who can confirm these would be helpful.

thanks and hope this helps.

Good stuff man. C is still a sticking point of mine, so I may be wrong about some of this stuff. Take it with a pinch of salt. And to the gurus reading this, please comment, even if it's just 'yup, you guys seem to be doing OK'.

1. The point of a neg is to disqualify yourself from being a potential suitor. Now, she's already won you over in A3, and you are now legitimately interested in her. So no point in negging. Be C&F, but don't overdo it, use it very, very sparingly (that's what David De who invented the concept says).

2. Generally try to use open-ended statements. Casually drop something into the conversation, then make her ask you about it.

3. Nice array of routines you got there buddy. There's a fun one I got from my wing that sort-of helps avoid an interrogation-like conversation (not good!), where you ask her a series of questions 'how old are you?' 'what do you do?' and so on.

'Alright, so I could have a mini interrogation with you here, but let's make it a bit more fun, shall we? Tell me three interesting things about you and make one of them a lie, and I'll have to guess which ones are true. Then I'll do the same thing for you'

It's also a nice transition into 5 questions if you wanna do that later on. As for 5 questions itself, I usually talk about it a little later on. I mention how I first got fooled by a friend of mine and why I think it's a clever game. It appeals to two basic instincts: to help others (hence the target always feels compelled to give you the right answer when you ask 'how many was that', so long as you play a little lost) and ego ('you got me! You've played this before, haven't you?'). This is always a pleasant stroke that they beat you at your own game the first time they did it, so they wanna rub it in - hence the refles to say 'no I haven't'. Style explains it on youtube.

Props up for having a vulnerability routine, for me it's my uncle who taught me my first couple magic tricks and died when I was 15 (this is true by the way).

Generally you should already start kissing in C2, so make sure you start kino early on to give yourself time to escalate without rushing (I start kino on the opener, it's something Juggler teaches and it's fucking GOLD).

Can't help you with phone game buddy, I have no theoretical background on it (yet).

Hope it helped and happy sarging.

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comfort has always been pretty solid for me..for some reason i've always stuck to telling a girl that certain physical chracterisitics remind of certain things.
and i tell her things i like about her physically and what those things are like..your lips pout when you're angry, its pretty cute..etc

Could you tell some of the DHV stories