Hi guys. I stumbled upon pickup thanks to The Game. Had mixed results. In the past 3 years of pickup, I had two (almost serious) relationships, two fuck buddies and few same night lays.

Right now where I am at now... I want to start all over. Erase what I supposedly know of Pickup and start from scratch. I believe that 2013 is my year of finding myself, to just become a better man. I'm 23 now.

1. Goals of Pickup

My goals of pickup would be to better my interaction with women in general and come across as a confident man who values himself for who and what he is. Essentially I would love to be in a healthy long term relationship, and if it takes me 5 years to find myself in one, it's the journey that will be the most important. I don't want to go out looking for it, but nor do I want to go to work, go home, sleep, go to work, go home, sleep.

2. Short Term

On the short term, my general interaction of women needs to get better, up to the point where I can speak to anyone. (I'm almost there, but not quite yet

3. Long Term

In the long term I want to become a better man who is valued by others and find myself in a healthy long term relationship. (I just came out of a relationship, where I thought I could put my heart in, but my girlfriend fell for another guy...)

4. Commitments

I can commit to anything someone throws out to me (within limitations). I live in Mossel Bay and the night life... well. It's poor. Day game, events, beaches, malls etc is likely going to be my sarging field.

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