long story short....used to like this girl a lot, as a result of my AFC ways she was not interested (showed way too much interest)....fast forward a year and a half and she is texting me and starting conversations. she even gave me a kiss on the cheek one night when i was over at her place and half passed out drunk. of course i'm not buying the bullshit anymore but just makes me think about how girls play their game. haven't decided what to do with it. as of right now, just short messages in response to her contact. i dunno what i want to do just yet.

It's probably more that you think that girls think that they're slick. Girls typically aren't motivated by the logical process of attraction. Instead, if you ever hear them chat about 'why' they like or dislike certain men, it's a justification of how they already feel. It's as if they are convincing themselves of why they like or dislike somebody to themselves just as much as they are trying to convince others. It's emotions first.

So if YOU know why she didn't have much interest in you before, then avoid that behavior. . . that's all. You seem to know that certain behaviors turn girls off. . . this means that the girl you are referring to now has done nothing but simply behave the way WOMEN BEHAVE. That's what a woman is. . . get used to it and use your knowledge in your favor beginning with this one.

sounds like you've upped your inner game a lot. congrats!