Howdy all,

Simple question, not looking for a definitive answer, merely input. Once you get the answer you want from a girl, whether it be meeting up, doing something, do you fill the time between with more chatter, building rapport and whatnot, or ceasefire until the night of the big dance, when you do meet up etc?

Example, have been talking to a prospect all week. We regularly go to the same venue, all the IOIs are there, and we agreed to meet up within and get a drink (made sure the vibe was flirtatious). That's all the opening I need to close, but would folk on this forum continue conversing with the gal, further charming and wooing? Or since I have the answer I wanted, keep it dry until the night?

-SilverTonguedFox

Depends on the situation. If you did set up the meet in person, you have the choice to either carry on gaming her, or returning to your friends and allow her to miss you. Personal choice I believe...

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It's a trade-off. If you keep it short and simple, she'll be less likely to remember you or be impressed by you. However, if you keep trying to build rapport you could potentionally over do it or offend her in some way and turn her off.

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