Okay, so I'm talking to this chick that I don't even know -technically. I've picked up quite a few numbers, but haven't been able to bridge the communication to my main goal -a date. So a lot of girls have just stopped responding. When this happens, I'll try one more time: give them two chances. If there's no response, I delete their number. I'm pretty sure this girl is one that I've deleted. Here's the text (From the dotted line under is where things start rolling):

Her: Hey! You!

Me: Hey, whatsup?

Her: Did you have class today?

Me: Yup. Ochem. But the teacher acts like a standup comedian, so its not too painful, I like it. Hby?

Her: Haha I had one class today which ended within an hour. Tomorrow will be a long day. 3 Classes back to back. Sigh. But I'm excited...sort of. lol

Me: Dang, you'll be having nightmares tonight about that lol. How spaced out around campus are they?

Her: Na. I never have anxiety about school. Idk. That's what I'm looking at right now. Do you know what building SW is?

Me: What's that?

Her: It's an abbreviation of ab building on my schedule.

Me: Well I figured?

Her: Idk I have to find out what it is.

(this is where I tried being smoother than saying "who is this?")

Me: Is this Ayesha? My phone may have saved u under the wrong name if it isn't

Her: Nope
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(At this point I straight up call her. I some annihilation method techniques ready to be used, but she didn't answer.)

Me: Hey pick up. I need to tell u something funny

Her: But you don't even know who this is and you shouldn't be talking to strangers lol

Me: Every one that gets along used to be strangers lol

Her: Ah, but not everyone gets along

Me: Well don't creep me out and we'll be good

Her: Why do you think I'lll be the one to creep you? Maybe you'll turn out to be the creeper.

Me: Only one way to find out

Me: U saying I'm creepy? Do you usually spontaneously text creepers?

Her: Lol. I never said you're a creeper.

Me: Good. You're not creepy. R u?

Her: That is the weirdest question someone has asked me. Lmao

My question is, how should I respond to this? I have two goals: 1) Get her to respond to my next phone call. 2) From that point, I want to set a date.

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This girl is being really hard thats not cool... try to fio who she is another way... try to clue into where you met her... or the last time you hung out... but most importantly, if she acting like this put her aside for a day or two and focus on something else. you dont want her to think that shes doing you a favor by texting/talking to you

So let me get this straight... You don't even know who this broad is and you want to go out with her...

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In my experience If a girl does not respond well through text its most often because you did not leave a lasting impression on her the last time you where together...most often the problem is attraction, not showing intent or pushing things enough with keno. You have to realize that if you are talking to an attractive women, there is a good chance your number is not the only number she got that night, and your probably also not the only guy she is talking with at the time (she could be dating other guys), so in order for her to respond to your text and want to meet up again you would have had to leave a positive emotional impression in her head, she would have to see you as one of the high value men in her life at that time.

Think about it like this, when you get a girl number who you really really like what do you do?? you probably check ur phone constantly, msg her with flirty texts....and when its a girl that you are not interested in what do you do?? you probably text back but its short texts, little emotion, and they texts could be hours apart correct? well women are the same.

If you want a women to feel those powerful emotions you need to push the keno, push for the kiss, touch and show intent, lead, and make the interaction man to women, not friend to friend. This is something that I struggled with as well and its why I understand this.

If you get a girl to kiss you on day 1, spend time building comfort, lead her in the bar, she will almost always want to see you again!

A women might think your attractive and interesting but women are not like men! they think lots of guys are attractive and interesting...its not enough to keep them interested! you can be the hottest guy in the world but she will put you in the friend zone if she doesn't see your value and that you are the "alpha" male. Get her to commit! get her to kiss you, spend time with you, before you get her number tell her "I am getting this number because we are hanging out later" and follow up with something like "when are we hanging out?" lead lead lead, get her to commit commit commit! and give value value value!!!!

Lastly keep texts short! texting should be used to set up dates only...you can blow everything with a text! especially since she was probably a little drunk the last time she was with you and a women's emotions can change quickly! you text only when you need to, most of your interactions should be face to face....texting is easy and doesn't talk courage which is why most guys like "text game" but the reality is that text game doesn't get you laid....you get you laid, and your not getting laid unless your face to face.

This is how a test should look, it should always give value and not take value. it should also show intent, and for the most part to the point:

Get number:

That night (give your self a nick name or something she can remember you by from your interaction, lets say you talked about how much you and her both love sharks:

You - Hey there shark girl, it scuba boy from the bar (; get home safe

Next day (Text needs to add value in some way):

You: Was at the mall today, ran into a guy in a scuba suit, thought hmmm I wonder what kind of trouble shark girl is causing...

Her: haha just at work (:

You: Right on your cool and you have a job, your future looks bright!! (;

Her: haha

You: the other night was fun, you seem interesting, I could be wrong? lol but I'd like to get to know you better, lets grab drinks this weekend, are you daring?

Her: haha sounds like fun...I don't know why?

You: Don't worry about it you will find out (; we will have fun

Stop texting! unless maybe she texts back but don't text anymore then she does! text before the weekend to set up the date, or even better call.

If you want to avoid having a girl flake on you without coming off as needy, text the day of your date with something like

"Hey sasha, Looking forward to tonight! I might be running 5 minutes late because I have to meet with my manager just before to go over something, I'll try my best to be on time (: see ya kiddo"

She will either say:
"No problem, il see ya tonight (:"

or

"Actually I can't make it tonight, I'm busy with ......"

If she flakes you ditch her and try again down the road, or just ditch her for good...either way it saves you from showing up to a date and looking like an idot if she doesn't show.

Holy shit, this girl is literate. First time I've seen that on the forum.
I'm guessing you did not meet her in a bar.

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Awesome!! You totally BLEW it, now she's like

"Who the F is Ayesha"

Don't get into creeper talk with a girl??

You could've just craftily had her send you a photo of her, that easy.