The media is bad for your Inner game



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 3:50 am 
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I just read an interesting article that talks about how the modern media harms a man's "inner game" with women.

You can read it here: http://romancecheater.com/getting-back- ... jo-part-2/

Do you agree? I think some of the points are valid.. even if they are little extreme.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:12 am 
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The media and popular culture facilitate myths about female attraction because the truth isn't politically correct or pretty. So of course they just sell various attraction myths that are believable to chumps. Lying implies willful deceit, that is going a bit far.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 13, 2013 10:24 am 
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I was thinking something similar to this recently but I couldn't phrase it coherently. My follow up was that this is the reason that I hang around here and read PUA material; it breaks down the expected behaviour that hollywood and media shows us. It re-frames what is normal.

For me, this is the most important reason why I'm here.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 6:08 pm 
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haters will say this guy is a women hater, but deep inside we all know we realy should not watch that girl on youtube : ''how to make her like you'' videos :O, we know it is total bulshit and we should do every thing she sais, but the exact opposite.

when i first felt the waters of the game 2 years ago, (i got into a relationship fast so din't continue my path) my only guidelines where: boddy language, and become an asshole, hell, evry single fucking weekend i would get a makeout like this, and weeks before that i only kissed 1 girl and i turned 20... it was insane... i was a women hater back then (the true nice guy syndrome!)

I think finding the middle ground between nice guy and asshole is what makes solid game, and it is deffenatly what i am striving for right now.

i have seen other posts say you should see women as little childs when you approach them... i still think this is too demeaning tho... i guess i do have a hard time, too stop seeing them as my equals.. hmm, more to work on!! ;-)

good post anyways, thanks

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 2:05 am 
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Yeah.. I think this guy tells the truth... even if its harsh.

I agree that any dating advice that women LIKE is going to be to the benefit of women. If a woman reads dating advice and gets mad, starts shaming the writer, or calls him a misogynist.. you know its advice that will benefit men.

Women can't tell you how to get them. That's like the deer telling you how to hunt it!

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:13 pm 
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Women can't tell you how to get them. That's like the deer telling you how to hunt it!
Ask the fisherman, not the fish, how to best catch fish.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 8:00 pm 
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Women can't tell you how to get them. That's like the deer telling you how to hunt it!
True and you can also say that woman are going to rationalize their own base and non-flattering genetic imperatives in an effort to make themselves look sane, logical, kind, in-control, and deliberate. None of which is generally true. You really cant blame them for creating a false narrative that they want to believe in so badly that they will actively promote it.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:43 am 
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PC culture is to blame.

Crap like "there are no gender roles!" and some such. This may sound "offensive" to some, but women want their cakes and to eat it too in modern society. they demand equality, but still want to be "treated as women", even though these old-school chivalrous attitudes are based on sexism/male supremacy. What's more, women still expect men to be men, and not pansies/pussies lol.. :lol: :lol:


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