i find myself running out of topics to talk about during midgame what are some topics/games to build rapport or that are just interesting in general?

Here are several:

Ask her for her 5 pet peeves and tell her your number one (even before she replies) is when girls mindlessly say "I don't know"

Ask her if she's ever had a Bacardi Rambo. There's a college football player named Bacari Rambo (don't mention this yet). After she says no, tell her she's GOT to try one. Get her to order herself one. If she asks what's in it, make some shit up. Then after the bartender gives her a puzzled look, tell her that you and some friends saw Bacari Rambo playing football and thought it sounded like a great name for a cocktail. Ask her what would she throw into one if she had to make up a Bacardi Rambo.

Touch her on her shoulder and ask her on a scale of one to ten, how awkward does it make her feel (while leaving your hand on her shoulder). Whatever she replies, offer to shake her hand to "show her how much more awkward that would be". When she does it, say "crap, you should go wash your hands now, I just got over the flu" and rub your nose while sniffling. When she gets grossed out tell her you were kidding and offer to buy her a hot toddy.

Tell her she's got a booger in her nose. When she goes willy nilly looking for it, tell her you'll get it and run your hands through her hair (slowly, smoothly, ALMOST sensually). Then say, "I'm sorry, I just wanted an excuse to run my hands through your hair." Then ask her something about her hair (what kind of shampoo does she use? Tell her about the girl that uses urine and has hair as nice as she does, etc.). Girls will not stop talking about their hair.

I just made all of this shit up (except my Bacardi Rambo game). Try it and report back.

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Bacardi Rambo would have to be rum and grenadine (blood red) and some other ingredient. Tell her that and then she'll think you know your shit when it comes to drinks.

I'm a big fan of the Freud Test, which is the new Cube routine. Have her describe objects that represent things about her life and personality. Look it up and practice it if you want.

Coin game. You need a penny, nickel, and dime. You tell her that Ben has two sibblings. Tell her his sister is Penny and hand her the penny. Tell her the brother is Nick and hand her the nickel. Then hand her the dime and ask her who this is. Most people will immediately try to come up with names that sound like "dime". But if you recall at the beginning you said "BEN has two sibblings". The dime's name is Ben.

Then some kino games. The Trust Test. Put both hands out palms up. Have her put her hands on yours. Squeeze her hands gently. See if she squeezes back. Move yours down a foot or so. See if she follows or leaves her hands in place. Rotate your hands and interlock your fingers with hers and hold your hands up in front of you. If you get a good vibe, bring them to the side and move in for the kiss while still holding her hands.

Thumb wars. Tell her you are the undisputed intercontinental champion of thumb wars and challenge her to a game. Pretend to put up a good fight but let her win eventually. Act like you are embarrassed and butt hurt that you lost. In a playful way, lash out at her and grab her and act like you are going to pick her up and throw her. Chicks like being picked up in the air by men for some reason. Raises their adrenaline.

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The Bacardi Rambo that my friends and I made-up started with Bacardi and grenadine, but we thought it should be an ironic drink and so it instead has gin and grenadine but first you have to dip the rim in red Gatorade powder. And it also has a slice of blood orange on the rim.

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