So I'm fairly new to pick up, but I have had some success. Just trying to figure out this situation, probably case of one-itis. Met this girl couple weeks, first date went great with kiss close. Second date went great too, she goes to my place and we proceed to heavy making out. We are in bed; I attempt to F-close, and she tells me there's another guy. She said that, she started talking to him after our first date and she mentions, "she likes us both a lot, and won't have sex with either before she figures it out". At this point I'm slightly pissed off, but shrug it off and we cuddle for a bit.

I decide to ignore her after and she texts me to ask when I'm going to see her again. I mention that I'm busy with school and told her I might not have time, so she says she will come over to my place in a few days. Once again, when she's over, everything is going great with making out and we end up in bed again. This time, I begin touching her down there, but soon after she stops me and she says," she still hasn't decided on her choice". At this point, she gives me a h-job and mentions that she just doesn't like hurting people's feelings... Now this is probably where I made the mistake, as I called her out later that evening over text on seeing the other guy. I mentioned that "she would only hurt us both this way, and that I won't see her again until she makes a decision".

She replied and said,"that she is really sorry, but she has more of a connection with the other guy but she wants to talk to me". I haven't talked to her since than. I'm not sure what to do at this point, since I have never had situation where the girl has blatantly told me she likes two guys, and even went into details about when she is seeing him. I even went on other date today that went well, yet I still keep thinking about her. I'm just wondering if in your opinions there is still a chance? I would probably move on, considering she is a slut if she gave me a h-job and made out while liking another guy. But I still feel attached to her because I genuinely have fun with her and we have interesting conversations. She also mentioned that she didn't do anything physical with the other guy yet. So I'm really confused about what to do, or what I might have done wrong. Should I have simply been better at escalating to an F-close or never calling her out about the other guy? Thanks.

The first second a girl even starts talking about another guy you immediately redirect her or cut her off.

Say "don't talk about other guys with me, that's unattractive" or even say "it's really unattractive"

She isn't allowed to make all the rules, she is in your world. And you need to let her know as soon as it happens just like slapping a dog when it shits itself LOL

So, when you were in bed if you were prepared that would've happened, you would've said what should have been said right then instead of sending the text that allowed her to "one-upp" you once again with the "I have a better connection with him" B

What's more important, this chick who is gaming you? Or you saving face, keeping your dignity and PUA ego intact?