So in the bar I thought my game was tight but I guess I must be doing something wrong???? I get number some times even day twos but girls seem to flake on me, or show little interest after even though they show signs of being into me in the bar??

Girl 1: She actually approached me, things seemed to be going well, talked for a solid 20 minutes, she seemed very interested, then after the bar things fell apart? told her "you seem interesting! lets get together for drinks this week" and she gave me every excuse in the book, I just told her Its not my first day one the job, that the same excuse I use on girls, and told he I'll see her around.

Girl 2: Got her number after 5 minutes, got a day 2 through text, met for day two, hit it off really well! made out with her, couldn't get her back to my place or hers because of logistics but the attraction was there...this one i might have ruined by over texting....but still she did the same thing, used excuses to bail.

these are two example. Anyone else have the same problem and how did you resolve it?

(My guess right now is perhaps I am building comfort but not enough sexual tension in the interactions? not enough keno, touching, It's more of a friend to friend interaction and not man to women)

Question is, do you need her? if you need her to give you validation, then you are most likely going to push her away, girls hate neediness, there is no need for you to rush things. Instead you need to get into the mindset of gaining more than just sex from them because that requirement of sex alone will make them run a mile, they dont want to feel used and kicked into the trash. When I want to meet a girl again, I do it because im attracted to her, I enjoy her company and her traits as a woman but at the same time I will still convey higher value, lead the way, make me and her feel good and be straight up and open when it comes to sex.

Here is what I am thinking:

1. I am not leading the interaction enough? moving her around, showing intent, going for the kiss on day 1 ect...I find it difficult to be go in for the kiss...I think I need practice or maybe I'm to worried about the out come and I'm to in my head?

2. Not being congruent when I text, I might try to come off to cocky through text rather then be my self which turns the girl off because she can see through it

You are answering everything right there in those statements. It is there, you just need to act on your intentions and already know/assume that she is attracted to you. When it comes to women, you can visualise yourself as the leader with higher value that finds her cute and amusing to look after for the evening, (this helps my inner game a lot) because that is what you are, that is what she wants you to be, the dominant male that won't let her decide on whether you should 'be yourself'.

I find teasing helps to draw state from within yourself by self amusement. This is a real icebreaker and can keep alot of fun and attraction going throughout the night with her just as long as you juggle it with sincerety and interest in her as a person so you dont come across as being just a joker.

And another thing, fuck texting, it gets a little boring and cliche after awhile. Destroy your comfort zone, stand tall and ring her, initiate further advancement.