So I have been approaching different kinds of women for over a year now. I have approached Asian girls, Black girls, Hispanic girls, Brown girls, Mixed girls, White brunettes, White redheads, and of course Blondes.

Now it isn't just a hair color to me. If that was the case then I would be talking about blonde asian girls being hard to game. I am sure you guys have an idea of the kind of women I am talking, I am talking about decent looking Blonde White girls (7 AND UP).

After doing so many approaches I have noticed a pattern. I do really well with Brown girls (Indian and Middle Eastern), Black girls, and oddly enough Gingers. When it comes to Latinas and Asian girls, I do alright. When it comes to mixed girls I do pretty decent. I have managed to have success with White brunettes as of late too.

Yet I have started to notice that I strike out with Blonde women often. I have only been with one and she was foreign (somewhere from eastern Europe, I think it might have been Ukraine). Now when it comes to the All American kind of blondes, I notice that I strike out so often even though I run the same kind of game on them (approaching, flirting, etc.). This same kind of game has managed to get me a lot of love from redheads, brown girls, and black girls (though I have them attracted to me I never follow through in being with them). This same game has managed to help me attract brunettes, asian girls, and latinas (who I have been with).

Now when it comes to blonde women, I notice that I am not having as much success. In fact in some cases I have been blown out hard.

I wonder how much these make a difference:

1. I am still in the south and I have heard that there aren't as many natural blondes here, so you run into more of the bleached type. Anyways I have seen a ton of pretty ones down here (though brunettes here are prettier).

2. I am an ethnic guy (Indian), so maybe that makes somewhat of a difference though it hasn't hurt me as bad when it comes to other kinds of women.

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I'd say some of it is you over valuing blondes and another part of it is the type of blondes you are likely approaching are the "done up" girls who are normally kind of douchie.

Your hair color doesn't influence your personality, however your style does. In Utah we have a huge blonde hair girl population, I'm not that big on blondes, but I've noticed blondes like any other type of woman come in a very large variety. Now if a woman has her hair dyed blonde that means she could have certain characteristics (such as you described).

Your background culture unfortunately may get judged by some of these more materialistic douchie uppity blonde girls, the only way around it with uppity blonde girls is your style, you need to be sure to have a very good style with those uppity girls. I'm talking suit, tie, etc. not just dressing like another pick up tool.

Physical description influences some of our personality no doubt, we tend to fit our physical description's personality. It's quite bothersome when I come across these type of posts because it is impossible to figure out your exact issue without taking into consideration your mindset influences your success with them, along with the type you choose, your style, where you are going, etc. It can be one thing or any combination of things.

Can't figure out your sticking point without more than what you gave me. Just keep experimenting approach them differently, dress differently, pay attention to the style of the girls you are approaching. Be very aware of all the variables.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Pedestalizing, you know, that might be true. Like growing up I have had so many bad experiences with blondes that some still scar me to this day. Girls my age teasing me in a bad way, sparring with some blonde in a martial arts class and having her beat me up in front of a group of adults that laughed, a blonde teacher that often picked on me, etc. But I also watched a lot of porn in my teenage years which oddly enough drew me to those kinds of women.

can I post an updated pic of myself so you guys can get a general idea of my overall appearance and tell me if there might be some things I can improve or where I stand?

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actually, I think it is just the ones down south

The blondes I have met from California and other regions of the US have been pretty chill, unfortunately we have very few women like that.

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Thought this post was familiar.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/300381/forum

dang, Indian guys struggle with blondes everywhere

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You really agitate me Paramount...do indian guys have harder time? do blondes need different approach? Are these people this and that? You do realize that you're trying to group a billion women into a category based on their hair color. You're trying to figure out what kind of guy they like based on that? Would you like to be stereotyped like that? As long as you forget, that women are people just like you and me, and all people are different and the same simultaneously, you will fail. We all are over 90% the same genetically, we all want to be happy and not to suffer, this makes us all the same. Yet we all have our life stories we cling to and our images of ourselves and people around us that dictate our view of the world. That makes us all different. As long as you're thinking about women as a mathematical problem that needs a correct approach instead of seeing them for who they are - people, you will probably fail and most definitely be unhappy.

If my threads bother you that much, there are many others on the page you can post on.

The occurrence which I am talking about and one that bothers me A LOT is that I am having decent and even sky high results with some kinds of girls but one category of girls I constantly strike out with.

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Paramount, you come on here and make all these threads about having trouble with blond girls. On the surface it seems that you want advice on how to get blonds but really you don't. See, we have all told you the same thing everything you start a thread like this but you keep starting them.

You believe that blonds don't like brown guys and what you really want is for someone to come on here and confirm that for you. You want people to post and say "its okay buddy, its not you, its the blonds, they just don't like brown guys."

So, in an effort to save all of us from another pointless thread like this:

Dear Paramount, its okay buddy, its not you, its the blonds, they just don't like brown guys.

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How is someone making a thread about Black girls and gaming Black girls alright but when I make a threads legitimately asking how do you game Blondes some of you throw a bitch fit?

I don't give a damn if you have an issue with my preference, personally, I could care less since I have to run into people like that daily in the south. What I want are your experiences (experiences from people who have done a lot of approaches and aren't on here to troll and kill threads with their crap) and what you did to game those kinds of girls.

I am trying to be civil here and keep stuff on topic but people are making this personal. I haven't posted here in a while and when I have come back I came back to ask for legitimate advice.

Blondes are put on the pedestal by American society, how does a guy get them. Either answer that question or go find something better to do than troll people because I can promise that you two aren't having much luck if you are trying to kill my threads. My god, how long do people hold grudges for anyways?

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We have actually told you how several times. So have people on the other forums you posted this stuff at. You even just answered your own question above! Don't put them on a pedestal. Treat them the same as you would a non-blond.

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What happens when a blond girl dye her hair brown.. Do they require another type of approach? Does she instantly lower her standards?

And what if the girl dyed her hair blond (is a fake blond), do I game her like I would game a brown girl?

FUCK, SO MUCH QUESTIONS.

Amazing post, paramount..

Once again

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