women making me look bad/ruining chances with other girls

a friend and me were standing at a bar. There was this chick in front of us and she was into me. well this other chick just came up and asked me to put her ear ring in, she said it had fell out. I was said ok and was going to put it in but then i realized that this was probably a test. i told her i didnt want to do it because i didnt know how. She took the ear ring back and put it in. while all this was happening she was all over me...whispering in my ear to grab her ass. putting my hand on her ass. pretty much telling me to take her home. well I looked up and the girl I was interested in was looking at me and the girl.

well I obviously wanted to bang the girl that was on me but I didn't want to look bad for doing so. I guess I thought it made my image look bad...I honestly hate that I feel this way but it seems like all eyes were on me. Every girl around us was looking a me and this girl.

I know this helps get girls but does it hinder you from getting girls.

I would say definitely say 'fuck it' and take the girl back, sure there's
a couple of girls who will be turned off by this (although they may actually
be turned on but just have to show disapproval in front of friends etc.) but
in general you're demonstrating value and that's a good thing, besides when
are you gonna see this handful of girls again anway?!

That's not ruining your chances... That's making you look in demand. And guess what? Rejecting the slut would have DHVed you even more. I'd have yelled out something like "Um no I'm not taking you home. I like classy girls, thanks!" Would have put you in good hands with the girl that was in front of you.

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this is a college town so theres a chance ill see them again...like i said ones into me so i know she's come back around for sure and i did reject her...whats dhv

this is one stupid thread. "this girls makes me look bad..." Jesus... Wake the fuck up, dude. And stop thinking in those terms. Do what you want to do and stop carrying about irrelevant things. Fuck the first girl, fuck the second girl, try to fuck them both. Do whatever, just don't think like you did.

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