Hey all,

I don't know if this is just me or not but i feel pick-up in general is a lot easier/feels
more natural when your actions are justified, for example, if i go out into the street
alone i will be too pussy to open sets and sometimes its the same in nightclubs -
however if me and my friends say to eachother 'ok lets have a competition and see
who can get the most numbers, kiss-closes i instantly feel more relaxed and better about
it?

Another example may be, if i was been filmed for entertainment doing approaches in the
street i think i would be a lot more comfortable (like the simple pickup guys on youtube)

why is this? is it because i need some justification in my head that i have another purpose
incase of rejection?

You're giving yourself competition and/or forcing to prove yourself. Perfectly normal human behaviour.

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