Im trying to close with this asian chick hb8, who I think is more innocent than she pretends to be (I dont think shes even kissed a guy). The first time we went out, she was really into me, and there is a lot of good kino. However, whenever I tried to kiss her, she would not read any of my signs at all, so she could just be messing with me. Whenever we try to hang though she is very flaky. Next time I see her, I want to make out with her, get a bj, and bang her for sure - any advice?

Please. I used to think that "innocent" girls were innocent. no such thing, unless you're in high school. Even then they're rare. If she's not picking up on your advances, there's three possibilities:

1. You're lame. Maybe you just suck at being sexual. Unlikely, though. Going in for a kiss is hard to screw up.

2. She's never so much as seen a romantic movie. No Nicholas Sparks, no chick flicks, no erotica, nothing. Oh, and her parents were asexual.

3. She's messing with you, is using the "Ice Queen" frame to rebuff you, because you haven't built any attraction and she doesn't want any.

My bet is on #3. Build comfort, show interest, blah, blah, blah. You know the drill.

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Some girls are indeed innocent and inexperienced. In actuality, 100% of all girls were that way at one point or another. You're basically just asking how to lay a virgin. It's a very common issue.

There's a lot of obstacles in the way. She's nervous, shy, scared, defensive, uncertain, reserved, uncomfortable, etc. But one thing you have going for you is that she is curious. What you have to do is get past her defenses by making her feel really comfortable with you, then cultivate her curiosity towards sex.

You don't want to get too aggressive too quickly, but you still need to escalate. When you encounter resistance, that's when you put it back on her. Try to belittle her for being immature and sexually inexperienced. Tell her that other girls her age are having sex. Ask her why she isn't. Make her feel like she's abnormal or behind the curve. This may seem a little underhanded, but this is the stuff that most guys do to devirginize girls.

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Hm. Puaninja is right. I know nothing, really of this girl, her age, back story, etc. XD I probably projected my experience on the situation a little too quickly. If you guys are... Under 21, let's say, then puaninja may have the best advice. If you guys are over 21 and you have reason to believe she's never kissed a guy, I would be very intrigued as to why... And probably pretty cautious. Comfortable with giving more info?

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"