Out of the many things I like to do with woman there are these two thingys that usually send them over the edge, so I do them very often. One is about the foreplay, the other about the actual fucking.
During foreplay I don´t ever touch their fannys directly. Even when caressing the butt or inner thighs I make sure that my fingertips never get any further then touching the rim of the pussy. It makes them want the touch even more. At some point I start to go down on them, working my lips and tongue down from her face over the neck, to the shoulders, breasts, the belly aso.
When I finally arrive "down there" I kiss and lick her inner thighs, stopping to breathe over her pussy for a short moment when I change to take care of the other inner thigh. From there I move in very slowly on her honeypot, but not yet! I lick gently the skin just millimeters from where the pussy-lips start,the sides of it, around it and finally the skin between the pussy and asshole (if I know that she´s clean down there I will gently lick and kiss that too). And then, while she can hardly stand me NOT adressing her plum directly anymore, I suddenly let the tip of my tongue slide through the middle of it, from down, upwards to her clit, quickly and swiftly. Not too forcefully, but not too gently either. This has NEVER failed to make the exited moans I hear up to that point explode into a loud scream of pleasure. Then I start eating her out for real and almost all of them cum very quickly... Sometimes I stick my cock inside the chick and start hammering her like crazy the moment I notice her body starting to go into spasms before orgasm. They cum like crazy!
I never had problems with PE (lucky me), but I imagine doing this might be a good thing to try out if you suffer from it and haven´t solved the problem yet I´d imagine...
However I do this usually only the first time I bed a chick, because what makes it work so well is the element of surprize, if you catch my drift.
The other thing, the one that has to do with the actual act, is something I read a good twenty years ago, suggested by this gorgeous blonde sex-therapist from Sweden (forgot her name but not the incredible black and white nude pics of her that decorated her article lol). Takes quite a bit of concentration and discipline, but I assure you it´s golden!
She called it "The 100 loving thrusts", and this is how it works: You enter her vagina, just sticking in the very tip of your cock, not deeper then 1-2 inches and do 9 shallow gentle thrusts and then one as deep as you can (apply as much force as you like, just be sure she´s really, really horny if you want to go for the deep one with full force). So that was 10. Then you do 8 shallow thrusts and 2 deep ones. Then 7 shallow and 3 deep. Then 6 and 4, 5 and 5, 6 and 4 and so on untill you reach 1 shallow thrust and 9 deep ones. After that You can either hammer her deep and hard until you both cum, or even (if you are the most self-controlled bastard on earth lol), start the entire sequence from the beginning...
If you can´t make it through the whole sequence, don´t hold back and ENJOY YOUR ORGASM! That btw. was also the advice the gorgeous blonde therapist gave
Hope my input was inspiring. Big cheers for this great thread guys!
Peace love and respect, Picun