I want to try and keep this as short as possible. I met this girl about a month ago during SantaCon festivities (Saturday all day drinking). We hung out all day and then ended up having sex at her place. she kicked me out afterwards, but we continued to text, etc. afterwards. She had nose surgery and was unable to do anything for 2 weeks.

Fast forward to the past weekend and a half. We had our first real date last Friday which went very well (went bowling, tons of teasing, making out, etc.). She basically invited herself to my buddies wedding and asked me to go on a weekend trip with her & her friends in the next week or so. We meet up with my friends and wind up dancing/hooking up on the side the whole time. I try to get back to her place for a night cap and she shuts me down (says I'll have to see her a bit more before that happens again).

The next night she invites me to a birthday party for her friend and I bring a few of my friends along. We meet up, go back to hooking up with each other as we move around a certain part of the city. I leave with her again and get to her front door where she shuts me down again. Our texting back and forth stays strong this whole time & she eventually says "#you'rejusttrytosleepwithme" in that exact fashion. I reply simply with "#notgoingtoletyoutakeadvantageofme".

We met up again this past Tuesday at a local arcade, she was apparently locked out of her apartment and had just come from the dentist. We have a drink and chat for a while which goes pretty good, but she acts very standoffish (says she was tired). We play a few games which she was apparently excited for, but she had this bored look on her face the whole time (I could tell by her body language as well). So we cut it and walked to the train station together, where she proceeded to rush to catch her train and aimed to give me a peck on the cheek. I give her a kiss on the lips instead and say we'll talk again soon. We did not have a make out session or hold hands this time around, but I did put my hands on different parts of her body, etc.

Today is Thursday and we last spoke Tuesday night, how would you suggest I proceed with this? I know things seem to go pretty badly (I actually found out yesterday I had a chest wall contusion from an earlier injury, so it affected me that night). Should I reach out like nothing happened tomorrow with a funny opener? Make fun of what happened Tuesday night? Any guidance would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

Honestly, I think you got what you want from her. She's complicated. On to the next one.

Unless she's your oneitis. If that is the case, I question what part of her behavior is particularly enthralling to you?

If that isn't the case, cast her off. Fun while it lasted and so on and so forth. Am I right?

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I suppose she is my oneitis, I don't run into many 6'2 hot blondes so it skewed my vision/mind. I also did not look at it from the behavior perspective you mentioned, I mean she is a very sarcastic/ball buster type of person.... but this cannot be tolerated.

We actually had a good text convo last night while I was at a basketball game. I agree with you that I should cast her off, I've actually heard this from a lot of my friends so it's advice I need to take. I'll leave it up to her from here on out, if she contacts me we'll see what happens.

Okay, okay, okay. This is not the sort of thing you come to a pua forum for then, brother. Here's MY advice: tell her how you feel about her. Tell her you like her. That will assuage her concerns about you just wanting to fuck the science out of her. Just tell her. Also tell her you get pretty focused on physicality sometimes because she makes you so nervous (that will make her melt). But I don't think this board is for you anymore, you are falling for this girl and need to reconcile that with her.

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