Hey guys, new to the community and a good looking guy, in fact have modelled and girls tell me i’m hot sometimes but still sticking due to AA but just wanted to share a possibly great opinion opener that seems to be easier for me to use, had very good responses in the past, and if you know how to lead it somewhere more cheeky, then great.
I find this works well with groups of both girls and guys, as it is something everyone has an opinion on. Okay so onto the opener.
Me: “Hey guys, just quickly (time constraint), my friend thinks that a guy should always pay for a girl on the first date, what do you guys think?”
This is good for two reasons:
1. A lot of girls still believe that the first date payment is a guy thing, if you’re up to it, you can give them stick if they say no and say that “cleaning is stereotypically a girl thing, but I haven’t see you in my house hovering lately” (said with a smile) and if they do happen to say that they think that it should be equal you can validate this “good behaviour” by saying something like “Okay, I’ll make the sandwiches and you can pay for our next date, deal?” (Smiling).
2. If the guys in the group that you want to blow out answer the opposite of the target, you can blow them out by jokingly saying with a smile “I guess you two just aren’t meant to be”. (Good opportunity to establish more eye contact with the target as well/kino hand touching/rubbing on shoulder as it’s said, like you’re consoling her from such a huge loss haha).

Let me know what you guys think, or how it can be improved, and let me know if anyone gets any results.

i really like number 1 and see myself using that line.

By the way this also rolls quite nicely into rapport as if you can get them slightly attracted to you, you can start to ask questions like "have you always had guys buy things for you?" "Your such a spoilt princess aren't you? "- using the princess thing gives you a good nickname to text them with should you number close