Hi Guys,

happy new year,

so 2013 is all about putting shit into action and coming outta the shell. also about putting what ive read in forums, books and seen on videos to the test. so in that spirit i'd appreciate any positive/negative feedback that i can get so i dont end-up in the same square over and over.

this was a girl that ive pashed on my b-day last year. but lost the F close due to me being needy. she stalked me on facebook and added me. here's our convo's i think there might be a chance that i could get her over to mine. shes out partying a lot and as usual theres a few guys after her as well as a few ive seen her with. in all honesty i dont care if i loose this. id much rather play as long as it goes and if i bonne then thats a bonus.


sorry about the long post but here goes :



her:Hey,
I've just seen this message now! I can't remember how I know you! I haven't been out in aaages! Are you friends with Caroline?

me

hahah lets not play games here. and yep, i know Caroline

her

Haha I mean, I know that I know you from ****. And I remember an embarrassing story you told me about yourself. Yep.

me

well..cant be that embarrassing if i told u what the hell DID i say?

her

something about a twisted nut i think

me

nice. perfect icebreaker then what cheeky shit are u getting upto nowdays?

her

none. I am a married woman.

me

good 4u...my condolences

her

haha I'm bullshitting

me

u always were

so besides the BS

what else u got going on?

her

not much, work work and more work. Saving money to spend on doing work in my section at home (would really rather be buying new dresses and partying) Suckla being a grown up. On average money. Haha

What about you?

me

its ok ur an old lady now. work hard, play hard right?. im prettymuch up to sweet fa. trying to save up for ** for new years. ive moved to *** last week. u work in town?

her

Yeah I work on ****

me

ure plans for this weekend?

her

possibly heading out tomorrow night. Don't know how big it'll be though cos i've got appointment 9am sat morning fuck it!

me

haha that didnt take long. well if ure lucky i may invite u to drinks at my pad on sat. u know where to get me


************************few days later**********
me

allright trouble, how many boys did u wrangle this we/


*********************************a few more days later*************

her

hey how are you? Still getting up to mischief every Friday night?

me

hahah mischief....depends on the definition. i been around, just not ****. find that place a little too clustrophobic and way too predictable.

u?

her

I've been out a couple times. Getting a bit sick of that place too. Where else is good where people aren't all 18?

me

try the *****. chilled, awesome SPAM and good place to kick off the night

or theres alwas my pad

havent really missed a weekend sober in this place haha

her

oh Yeah it's alright there. What about good dancing places though?

Haha your place!

me

seriously we dance up a storm in my pad b4 town, best being the fact u can control your music but otherwise i always hit *****, ***** or that place next to ******

keep forgetting its name

heapsa my gym buddies goto those places so i m well at home haha

so ****..where do u prefer to cause trouble?

her

well we usually drink at work till about 10ish. Then we are ready to party. Haha

me

free works booze? cant really complain about that ay

what u got lined up 4 this week?

her

i was at ***** on Monday night Haha. Don't really like the vibe there. We need to try new places cos it's usually ****** and we're over it. Always end up at ***** though. Love that place

we might try *****or somewhere like that this Friday. ****is good

me

wheres ****again?

her

corner **** and *******
me

mint, well i have a farewell this friday, sat wer havin drinks at mine, feel free to swing by if u arent hung over

her

and i don't cause trouble. Though i do remember a really awkward moment in electric where your workmate that i just gave my number to was there...

me

dont lie. u loved every bit of it

her

ha! It was super awkward! Well I'm off to bed. Night you dork

me

cute doesnt go with dork! thts always been the rule nice try thou kiddo. goodnight!

*********************************today***************************************

me

poobum!

u slackin off again?

her

ha! I take offence to that!

I am working hard, as I see you are not

me

im on my lunch. whats ur excuse?

her

I'm just cool

me

hahah yep....

u prolly got a drink in ur hand by now

knowing u

her

knowing me?! Hey haha why would you say that!

me

i dunno i just thought u like a good time most of the time

her

Haha coming from Mr-In-Town_every-Weekend!

I've only seen you out like twice!

I don't go out that much...

me

hahah wait! how do u know im in town every weekend then?

u stalkin?!

her

you told me you egg

me

i got a bit of amnesia u know. its sad to laugh

and judge

her

alcohol induced amnesia I presume

me

careful now! or there WILL be a punishment heading your way. and trust me u dont wanna hear what it is

her

so why the smiley face?

me

coz i might like it more than u

her

hahaha

me

why u laughing? do u even know what it is?

i do and im crackin up in my head here

her

I am a mind reader.

YOU
SICK
F*CK!

haha

me

LOL now now. thats assuming too much

and u know what they say about assumptions

her

so what is it

me

u miss, will only be wearing your Lingerie, walking upside down on your hands through *******

and ill be there with a leash so u dont wander off cheating

her

hahahaha

jesus

like i said before...

me

fitting isnt it?

her

Ummmmmmmm

NOOOOOOO

me

why u so shy?

her

that's how my mum and dad made me

me

well girl its time to come outta that shell then

u cant be a turtle all ur life

her

oh heeeellllll no

I like being a turtle

me

sweet, ill bring some lettuce for when i cu next

her

my favourite!

me

although, i prefer not to goto town all geard up and some leffuce hangin off my right side

her

so put it on the left

me

depends, will you finish it all?

her

depends how hungry i am

me

u'll have to choose. alcohol or lettuce

her

lettuce aaaaaalllllllll the way

me

hahah not the last time i met you it wasnt

her

what are you trying to say fool?

me

u just crack me up at times

her

you're easily amused

her

FOOL

And don't think I don't remember that you tried to get me to go home with you haha

and you FAILED

me

you think waaaay too much. i only wanted to show you my amazing rock collection

her

aaahahahahahahaaha


i got busy and left it there.

nothing else on top of that. thoughts?

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

Your texting is pretty good but you are trying too hard to get her over to your place and she knows it. Put in some face time and then escalate. She likes you, but she won't just bend over for you, GO GET IT!

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"Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"

Ok Lads, I Need your Wisdom Here because this is seriously doing my head in.

so about 10 months ago i got with the girl as above, please read the info above as a bit of background.

so i finally managed to stop being needy around her and this resulted in me going over her to her pad. i had everything but her knickers off and we were making out. but it all stopped there. she wanted to take it slow (Period, Fresh from a serious breakup, i dunno. but im sure 60 will disagree on this). so i left home about 2a.m. prior to the meetup, she was very interested and wanted to meet me. i think after that night my AFC one-itis self kicked in and it showed. i went for a day two meetup but we were both massively hungover and all we did was dinner and a snuggle up and crashed in her bed. again she was down to her g-string but wouldn't go further. and seemed mad at the fact that i was so pushy. this could be due to the fact that she was hungover and was grumpy and wasnt used to having people sleep next to her.

here are some things i did wrong :

*act needy and told her i liked her, perhaps more than she did to me. and asked if she liked me.
*tell her shes cute. she finds me very attractive (Not hard given the fact that im Leagues ahead of her last few)
*paid for our first dinner and second. (she is poor after buying a house and the breakup. i felt sorry)
*tell her that shes being mean
*tell her that i did have a soft side. i neg her a lot as she calls me a cheeky shit all the time.

now last weekend she went out. was meant to meet her. i was at a big street party dressed as magic Mike (Dont ask). i have a banging body and when u walk around with nothing but a pair of cuff links and a bow tie on top - you are asking for it. i think i may have hooked up with at least 9+ girls that night, not to mention that on the morning ive banged out my F-buddy.

she is also a bit wild. when we first hooked up 10 months ago, i went to the same club next week to find it was her and her ex's best friend pashing in the clubs (Ive seen this), while she was doing this i caught her hitting on one of my work colleagues - she admits to this. and also goes on about other boys etc. she is BI. last week she hooked up with another girl and passed out on some lads bed before meeting me.

there seems to be something going down as yesterday she mentioned she wasn't happy but didn't wanna talk about it. also ive noticed that she doesn't chase me anymore as the txting died. as of now its one to two texting ratio between her and i. i havent texted her all day.

what should i do? should i see whats up or next her? i have other girls im working on. this girls probably a 6 at best , but a cool chic i can get along with. i've had 8's and 9s before. at first i only played hard to get because i wanted to give her a dose of her own medicine for having me one week and 2 other the next week. please be blunt as possible with this one.

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.