Okay i live with 5 girls and one other boy, one of these girls i know quite well, we were friends before as she was good mates with my ex but they had a falling out, okay thats the brief history, now il describe the girl.
she's in her early 20's from an eastern european country, very smart and manipulative even though she is probably a 6/10, she has guys falling over themselves trying to prove themselves to her, mainly because she knows how people works, overall she is a pick up artist, i wish i could be that good.
Well i would say we are friends but she is extremely flirty, like she would walk past and squeeze my arse, she is just very affectionate, however after studying mystery methods i have a horrible feeling that i am being gamed.
She is very affectionate to the other male SPAM who is a nice guy not very good at girls but a decent bloke overall. affectionate such as sleeping on him when everyone watches a film and stroking him. But this has been maxed up since we moved back in the flat after christmas. She is become very sexual with her flirty, and whispering things to him, and this all when I'm in the room, its just becoming awkward, and she would make a point to just ask him something and ignore me completely.
Now i know this girl inside out in terms of how she manipulates people, as we have discussed it many times, and i can't help but feel this is a ploy to get at me or something.
Recently on a night out at new years eve i got drunk and apparently snogged her (kissed her) my memory is very vague on this, and i know other people were around, such as the lad in this story who i am telling you about, felt bad about leaving him out.
I am not sure if this is connected or not, but i can't help but feel she is trying to make a point, as it's just getting strange now, she makes comments like "i know who i would choose to sleep with etc" and cheeky promiscuous comments, while being almost rude in ignoring me.
I have decided to cut off from her as i don't like the feeling i am being experimented on, and besides my ex warned me seriously about this girl, unfortunately i didn't take the advice seriously, and thought i could be friends with her, but now it seems that I'm just being experimented on.
it is hard not to feel a bit jealous as although i wouldn't by no means want a relationship with this girl, it still is weird.
Has anyone got any advice, at the moment i am just getting on with my own thing, but it just disturbs me thinking I'm gamed and for what reason i don't know
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