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ah thanks Cooli much appreciated.
Iam not sure what iam looking for. Sometimes i think i should have a girlfriend and other times i feel just a one night stand may be better. Iam complicating lol
Well, the fact that sometimes you want a long term relationship means that it's really what you want because it's not activated by anything really. When you think that you want a one night stand, it's because you're in "need for sex". In a long term relationship, you miss this "need for sex" since you have it whenever you want!
I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. Not a long one I agree but probably the most serious one. I don't have this "need for sex" anymore, the fact that she takes care of me comes first, the action of having sex is a second thing (we still have sex 1-4 times a week depending on job, stress, etc).
I honestly think you should get a fuckbuddy, fuck with her A LOT so you get rid of this "need for sex", then look for a good girl to have a long term relationship.
How about this buddy?
Jean-Michel
P.S. By the way, I almost forgot! Welcome to the forums
