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| Ascendah | PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2013 10:33 am | |
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Joined: Wed Nov 28, 2012 6:11 pm
Posts: 15 | | I know how to act like a bomb with girls, but with men I feel like I am too loving/friendly/nice.
Not a pushover, but say there is a group of us and x beta male starts telling me about what he did on holiday, I will be very interested and ask him questions and just listen and compliment where needed (in a friendly, neutral way).
I am so confused as to whether this is a positive or negative thing, and how it makes me seem. I just cannot see it! It feels neutral, but I am really at a loss of how to feel about this part of my personality.
What do you think?
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| daffy duck | PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2013 3:39 pm | |
Joined: Mon May 14, 2012 8:32 pm
Posts: 559 | | unless you're trying to get these men into bed, i don't see how it really matters.
personally i think it's a good thing to be interested (or appear) interested in other people's ramblings. it makes them feel important and every one likes someone who makes them feel important.
there is a time and a place to be alpha. if you're alpha all the time you're just asking to be taken down a peg or two.
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