Whats up! Recently out of a horrible relationship 5 years with the girl from hell. I immediatly bought toa of badass. I went to the bar one night and attracted a girl heavily with the methods closed with a kiss and a number. It was her birthday that night and I even had her buy me a shot on her birthday. After I kissed her I said ok I am out and she said "what thats it". And then she invited herself to my place I said yes but her sister blocked.

I began texting banter to her just having fun and she responded well. I then called her to hang out. I tried to set something up just me and her on Sun but she said she wanted to meet up Fri (which was my birthday). I went to the bar with 5 High value guys and when I showed up she was with freind two of them being guys. I played it off even talked to other girls which seemed to get some attention. But I had no way to get on the inside cause the two guys were on the outside chairs. I finally just went over and extended my hand palm up. I pulled her out and spinned her but in the opposite direction that I was supposed to. Not smooth still a beginner. But I got her to come outside and have a smoke with her. I bantered only a little but she was not as responsive as the wee before. I decided to make her qualify anyways. She did but reluctantly. I then built report only on one topic and did not release smoothly. We then started to have a lot of fun but no report building. Everyone kept buying me shot after shot I even made freinds with one of the guys that may have been my compotition but I turned caveman after being too drunk. Began kissing her then took her up to my apartment next door and into my bed. We kissed but then she said I have to find my sister and so we went back to the bar.

She called me at like 430am and I was passed out but my freinds thought it would be funny to act like me. They asked her to go on a movie dat in the afternoon the next day and I also beleive they ask her to come over and she agreed to right then. But she didnt because she called back and know one answered.

The next day woke up and saw a text that said "you a ho" because I fell asleep. I bantered back. I am trying to set something up tuesday but she is a little reluctant but still responds.

Did I screw it up by going cavema? And why do you think attraction building did not go well as it did the week before? was it because of the other dude? What should be my next step how should I text how should I proceed?

Going caveman probably didn't hurt you at all, she was obviously receptive anyways. It probably didn't go as smoothly this time because A) She was out for a fun night on her birthday last time and B) She already knew you liked her or she wouldn't be there right now. Need to keep escalating the attraction.

Next step? Stop trying to 'set something up' for starters. Just go out, do your own thing and let her know she can join you if she wants. Don't make it a big event, keep making her an afterthought. If she were a traditional girl that wanted a traditional date it wouldn't have had played out the way it did so far. She wants fun.

Great advise thank you...should I be building report over the phone?