| I feel I strongly need some conversation resources.
I do GREAT on initial approach. I mean, I occasionally have AA, but very, very rarely, and I can typically get past it easily (just have to build momentum).
However I'm not good at making interesting conversation or being very funny always. I just sorta stop and peter out.
If I have a friend there, or there's multiple girls I can usually do okish, but still not as great as I should.
For example, on Saturday I hit on the hottest girl (subjective measure, of course, but in my view) at the club - short, blonde, tight black dress, high-heels, all done up. You could tell she had been approached quite a bit. I approached her, did a great open, insulted the fuck out of her (jokingly - she loved it), and then I had to end the interaction because I had no more material. I didn't think I could do a # close without it coming off as clumsy. Hell, she even tried to talk to me later on and dance with me and I just said no.
I know part of it is inner game (after hitting on her more or less successfully, I felt like I was king of the whole damn club, but I still didn't feel I had staying power with her), but a lot of it is actual conversation.
Yesterday, me and a friend were in a college town, about 30 miles from where we normally are. It's probably the best place in the entire state to meet young, cute, smart girls. I was already going to be in that area, so he tagged along and we planned to open a few sets.
I'm getting into my car (a 2005 Mustang, so it looks quite nice, especially to college-aged girls) and I see these two girls, cute, but not amazing, getting stuff out their car after winter break. Perfect opening to help them move stuff and go up to their place.
My buddy was a little slow to get moving, but I opened them, I was getting IOIs (one of the girls complimented my car) and I just ended the encounter. I could have gotten a number, I could have set up a date, maybe even that night, but I didn't. I might have even been able to segue up to their room.
Is this just inner game stuff, or is there really conversational material (more theoretics rather than routines, though routines could be useful in a sore spot too) to look into?
I saw something about DiCarlio Conversation Cure, but I don't really want to spend $500.
Any ideas? Any reading or practice you guys can recommend?
Mid-game conversation is REALLY hurting me. I feel improving this will improve my game infinitely (well and some inner game stuff, but after hitting on several of the hottest girls at the clubs in the last few days and performing EXTREMELY well, I am feeling way more confident lately).
Note my background - I'm pretty good with getting girls, but I want to get hotter and hotter girls. I am never satisfied.
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