Im 24 years old. I found a 42 yr woman (HB10) on POF, asked her out and met her at Starbucks. Unfortunately, it appeared as though she was not in to me. She asked only a few questions about me. I was wondering if the location was not suitable so we went for a walk and chatted some more. Whole date/meeting was around 1 hour.

Exactly 48 hours after our meeting at Starbucks, I called her but she did not answer my call so I texted her. We exchange few messages and she agreed to meet me at a specified time. I told her I will text the location soon.

Im very interested in her, but how do I proceed to get success?

You can start by being realistic and not calling 42 y/o women hb10s.

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Thats what Im really attracted to.. she is one of the hottest woman I have met so far.

All the younger girls are really immature and I dont get along with them. Also I have found that most of the girls in town are looking for a party animal type of guy which I am not. But I could be wrong about that because there is no way to prove.

Show us a picture.

Also, sounds like you need to display more value.

You also need to get her talking about herself without directly asking any questions. Make statements instead of questions which will lead her to talk about herself. When she is talking don't focus on visualising her naked or sleeping with her. Listen and respond with yet more statements. Make sure you show value. If she says she went on holiday and explains the last time she went, that is your cue to tell a story about the time you went on holiday to middle earth and got to ride a dragon. (Obviously not that exact sentence).

(I just took out the picture)

She is much hotter in person and looks a lot younger too.

I found a cafe that is playing live jazz music. Is that a good idea?

Thank you for the input.

I can think of one(45).

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I saw the pictur. She is cute. I was also going to suggest taking it down so that she wouldn't stumble upon it.

With this girl you have to take into consideration her age. She is at the age where she will want to settle down. So while she is with you, she is probably trying to work out whether you are for real or not. She's probably wary about your intentions and shielding herself from disappointment or time wasters.

Let's be honest, there is really no good reason why a hot older woman would choose a man who is 18 years younger than her. Even the cougar thing, is still a red flag in my book. Unless you are like really handsome, manly, and rich, I'd be leary as to what her intentions are. She could easily find a smart, handsome, successful guy in his mid 30s and be just as satisfied. Going for a guy in his early to mid 20s is simply going a bit too far. I'm in my 30s and when I talk to people in their 20s they haven't heard of half the shit that I have, and it's like we are from different planets. I can only imagine a woman in her 40s trying to connect with someone her son's age. There could never be any real connection other than sex.

If I were you I'd just try to escalate and beat guts as soon as possible. That's probably all she wants anyway. Then mindfuck her and convince her she is your dirty little secret and you two could never work out in a real relationship so it just has to be a hidden sexual affair. And try to get a little money out of her too. Make her pay for shit since older people usually have more money. That'd be my only advice on this one.

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