I have a crush on the sister HB 8.5 of my best friend whom is a girl. They're pretty close and I'm pretty close with my best friend (clearly) and fairly close with the sister. I've been into the sister since I met the two of them almost a year ago... Originally they were visiting Vegas from California when we initially met and a few weeks later, my new found best friend moves out to Vegas. We hang out and she occasionally spent the night because she was living out of her car and I felt bad. I never made a move because I was into her sister and didn't want to mess my chances up! Months later the sister comes for a visit and my best friend brings her to the place I djayed at.. After about 2 hrs into my set they tell me they were leaving and on her way out the sister gives me a Big hug and tells me thanks so much for looking after my little sister, I say, "No problem, thanks for coming" and she replies "I've been waiting for this". I didn't know if she was being nice for helping out her sister or if she meant it and was hitting on me...

Eventually the sister moves into town as well. Anytime we're together I don't get awkward but I talk about the most boring stuff because I don't want to be to forward and offend her and my best friend gets mad at me. The Sister gives me the biggest hugs and I sometimes catch her staring at me when I'm not looking and she barely looks me in the eye longer than 2 secs when we talk. I would love to be in a relationship with her but she just moved here and I don't know if she wants to get into that quite yet.

She's supposed to be coming over tomorrow to bring me a gift and check out some of my new music... How should I tell if she wants me to make a move? Advice would be great!


I also bought her a book that she was reading that she had to leave behind, she loved the thought and called me an amazing person. I was looking for a different response but that was cool too!

you gotta tell her you like her cuz you havent shown your intentions

You have the wrong mentality bro. You don't wait for her to give you signs that she likes you. You make her like you. She's not giving you iod's, so that's all you need to know. It's a greenlight in my book.

Sounds like she's really happy-go-lucky and affectionate so I would play on that. Whenever she gives you the book or does, well, ANYTHING, be like "Omg, you're so sweet!" and give her a big hug. Start being all touchy feely and sappy with her. Say things like "You are so nice, I wish I could find a girlfriend like you one day." Make it seem like you are complimenting her but might not necessarily be interested in her specifically. Obviously you'll need to keep escalating from there, but I think starting with playful innocent kino is a good start.

And don't tell her you like her gawd damnit!

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Thanks. So being direct is not the way to go?

I was engaged to one of my best friends sisters. She was the same way with me before I got with her.

She was a HB9. Great looking gal, we had the same hobbies, personalities, and so on, except she was crazy. In fact, before she met my parents (Hooking up for six months) she wanted to get married!

How is that for breakthrough comfort?

Back to your issue...

She is showing ioi's. So, as aforementioned, it is a GO!

Being direct is a no-no. I would still run normal attraction game. Kino is HUGE for this type of thing, because with a friends sister, things need to just happen, or seem that way. You cant make a move as it can ruin a friendship and make things weird.

Go in socially, playful kino and attraction material. Tease the mess out of her. Qualify her so you have a reason to 'like' her and kino until a move is a natural progression.

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Perfect. Thanks!