Ok so there's this girl I fucked once, my text game after (and in general) is weak (though improving) and I think she felt I was needy. I've sorta relegated her to the status of "text occasionally (like once every week or two) with some bullshit, and be funny" - which typically makes a girl remember me enough that when I contact her 1-3 months later, she's down to meeting, if she's bored.

But I've sorta realized that she's got pretty low self esteem and is sorta depressed with parts of her life. She also uses fake flirtiness (she's a stripper - I met her unrelated to her job though).

Whenever I say something that could be construed as negative, she switches to reflect my reality. When I said she sounded depressing, she was like "Did it? Is that a bad thing?" - paraphase, but it was very qualifying language.

Anyway, what is the best way to use this?

For example, she called me a pet name of "sweet face" the other night.

I made a joke about it, and told her to apologize. She did so.

I was thinking of telling her that I don't really respect girls who use pet names for a guy they barely know (which is true). I was also thinking of telling her that while fucking her was nice, I don't really see her that way (i.e., I LJBF her).

What do you guys think about these ideas?

Yo yo.

Bump.

These ideas seem stupid to be honest. What's your ultimate goal here? To have sex again? Then stop texting her and get face to face again. A relationship? Then stop trying to manipulate her.

You're asking for advise, without explaining your goals.

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RSDTyler