I'll give you the short version of this story first. About 2 months ago I met a girl and we became fuck buddies for about 2 weeks. We then got cold feet about relationships only to return and have sex again. It was awkward after that and we kind of drifted apart. Now we are getting close again and boy do I really really really want to fuck her again.

Now here's the long version. The initial close was very conventional, we met through friends then we kissed then we had sex. She's a bit dramatic and made a big deal out of a relationship, I'm an idiot who completely messed up the situation and we eventually parted ways. There was a bit of tension for about a week until we both got horny and had sex (great sex) again. But she over analyzed it and I fucked it up because I was too dim witted to turn the situation around. So it was awkward AGAIN. Then we parted for the christmas break.

Now I'm back in college and we are meeting up again as "friends" but the sexual tension is palpable. No more awkwardness and we are getting along great. But I'm a bit apprehensive about trying anything and with good reason because I did fuck it up twice already. Bit oh god do I want to have sex with her again. I'm not going to tell you how stunning she is or how good in bed, that's already implied.

But I don't know how I should approach it. I have absolutely no tact. I was thinking about just being honest and saying that I'm horny as hell and want to stick it in her but I know that won't work. Even if she wants it as bad as me that will still probably just shock her into saying no.

So how should I approach it? Please reply, all suggestions are welcome!

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Now, bring me that horizon!

Seriously guys, tomorrow I'm planning on just casually suggesting we have sex. Is that a mistake?

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I don't want to give specific advise to this. Nothing great is coming to mind. But just bluntly saying "Let's fuck" out of the blue is going to end poorly 9/10 times. Including a lot of times where she absolutely would have hooked up with you again.

What I'll say here is lame, and I don't think you should do it... but it's better than what you're thinking. Get a movie and ask to come over and watch it. Awful? Yes. Obvious? Yes. But that's at least 3/4 chance of getting blown out instead of 9/10 :p And it probably leaves you with a better opening in the future than the direct way.

Hopefully someone else has a better idea

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RSDTyler

I didn't run into her today but I'm thinking of calling her and asking her over to study (we have college exams next week) Is that solid enough?

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Now, bring me that horizon!

That's better

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RSDTyler