I'm struggling to understand this girl.... She is a co worker...

Now she has a boyfriend but has never mentioned him to me and when i give her a chance to she avoids him completly, but to others she seems to bring it up pretty quick.

I'm cocky funny and i tease her alot and she hits me bla bla bla.
I have tried reading body language but i'm awful differentionating between friendly and attracted...

She likes to feel my arm because she thinks it's muscley... Women eh!

Yesterday she was reading on page 3 (where topless models are) and she said the boobs looked like hers. I disagreed, hers were small, she went on to say but there perky and the size of her nipples.. (i understand in heignsight i should of said prove it but my mid didn't work that quickly. Then we moved on to her bum, i said she has a good bum, but not as good as this model, so she showed me (trousers on guys, calm down) She went on to say she coiuldn't believe she was telling me this

Do you think she is just seeking validation, or interested????

could be she sees you as a safe option and that you've been friendzoned.

only one way to find out and that is to make a move. a test i do is to tell a girl to give me her hand. once she gives it to me i gaze into her eyes and continue talking about something else whilst gently rubbing her hand with my thumb. if she rubs back that's a pretty good indication which leads naturally to the kiss, which is, of course, the ultimate test (apart from sex of course).

this could be tricky as you might make a situation at work very awkward so tread carefully. personally i would not go there and i speak from experience. there are plenty of women out there. why settle for one who you not only work with but is already unavailable - you're just making things difficult for yourself (which of course might be the whole point albeit unconsciously if you yourself are unavailable).

Am i friend-zoned because she feels too comfortable around me that she can talk about her tits and ass? she doesn't mind my touch and she always wants to stand on close proximity...

Is this a bad sign?Is there another compliance test to see if she is attracted?? How can i increase the sexual tension, so she knows i see her sexually (she should know)

i'm not saying you are friend zoned at this stage.

a very similar thing happened to me. got real close to this girl at work who had a bfriend. all the signs were there. her touching me, flirting, playing with hair, staring into eyes etc. only i blew it at the time by not moving fast enough - but i have an issue with messing around with other people's women, but that's just me.

if you're not ready to jump into the deep end just yet, you can test the waters by seeing how she responds outside of the work setting. it is one thing for her to be like this at work (a safe environment) but it is another to do it outside of the work setting.

Am i able to build the sexual tension while at work? if so how can i do it? i work in a bar if that makes any difference.

sure you can. try to go through a shift without a saying a word. try to do all your communication through action.

with looks, touches and looooong, almost inappropriate silences...use your eyes, hands and whatever else to do your talking from now on.

one way to tell if they are attracted is by how often they initiate interaction. i once did a tally count of this girl i worked with. it was well into double figures within the first hour. let her do all the talking. make her come to you.