So I'm dating this girl and she's okay, probably a 6 with a pretty likable personality. The problem is she wont even kiss me or hold my hand. Like what the hell am I supposed to do? It's been about two months and it's kinda hard to keep waiting. At this point, it's more like we're just friends than we are dating. Btw I'm in high school. Any advice from anyone? And do I have oneitis then?

She doesn't think you have a penis and you haven't made her aware of the fact that you do. Because I've always been in church, I have tons of experience with "conservative" girls. I had kissed girls I'd been friends with for a few months in church when we were in single digits. Bottom line, your high school girlfriend is not more sexually shy than an elementary kid. And if she is, you'd be best advised to dump her ass, because she's flat out asexual.

Since you've already wasted a few months on this, here is how I would proceed. Just kiss her. Do it the next time you see her. We have a routine thread and I remember it having something like saying you have a present and remind you in a minute. And then when she brings it up you tell her to close her eyes and hold out her hand and then you take her hand and kiss her. Not personally field tested, but seems like a good fit here.

Anyway. Move. Do not ask permission, just do. Grab her hand. She's unlikely to tell you to let go and if she does, accommodate her - and go do something else. Make sure to start using more sexual language around her. Tell her what a hot ass she has. Get her to talk about her fantasies. Yes, they'll be very, very flowery, but there will be at least some degree of eroticism in them. You need to get her thinking about sex and specifically, sex with you.

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Thanks man, that really helps. My next question is this. Say I kiss her, and she blows up. Should I do damage control, and if so how? Or should I just leave it alone and just end things?

If she blows up, tell her you can't help yourself. She's so beautiful and you really like her. Some degree of AFCish stuff is okay for conservative girls. You don't "game" them as hard as regular girls. That literally scares them.
Though this is an explanation that borders on an apology, do NOT say "I'm sorry". Tell her that you really like her, but you feel like you're ready to start kissing. Don't make her decide right then, because she's emotional and not in a good way. Next time you see her, get her in a good mood and then bring the topic up. If she says she's okay with you progressing there, congrats If she says she's "not ready" it means that she basically just likes you as a friend and isn't really attracted to you. You can't force attraction, so at that point, you'll have to cut the relationship.

In any event, there is nothing you can do at this point to "make it work". You're either in a place where she wants to do this with you, or you never will be. You can't convince her to be attracted to you. This is really just a way to find out where things stand. It's not a gamble, just a way of gaining understanding.

Do tell us how things go

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Absolutely. Fingers crossed. I see her tomorrow so maybe I can get the job done

Do such types of activities(show her any romantic movie alone) that you can get a best chance to kiss her. If one times to kiss her than noone can stop you to fuck her.