I will not delete her facebook. just her number. And i will promise mself to NEVER, EVER initiate another conversation with her again.

Good advice, if your trying to pull the "your gonna lose me so commit" play which only works if your balls deep in a girl most nights.

To be honest I would text her saying

Me: Look I like you but you only seem interested in playing games so I'm out.
Her: Why did you just text me that.
Me: If it was me, I would want an explanation. Anyway it was nice, bye.
Her: <some bulllshit>

Then just never text her again. I explained so she has no reason to contact me again so I can finally get her fully out of my life if not I'd always be going "wonder why she doesnt care yet".

*sigh*

should I?

Also, from what you can see. she's playing games right? And isnt interested in me?

It doesn't matter, you have oneitis for her. Oneitis is bad because they will always fuck you over and you will get hurt.

I was starting to get oneitis for my fuck buddy last year. Fit as fuck and amazing in bed but she loved playing mindgames and messing with my head so I've distanced myself because I can do better, she's just another notch on my list now.

It doesn't matter, you have oneitis for her. Oneitis is bad because they will always fuck you over and you will get hurt.

I was starting to get oneitis for my fuck buddy last year. Fit as fuck and amazing in bed but she loved playing mindgames and messing with my head so I've distanced myself because I can do better, she's just another notch on my list now.[/quote]


For sure bro fuck....time to move on.....

Overall, I think AfricaAmber should drop this chick completely too. However, I suggested it as an alternative so that he can save face

what does save face mean?

Not be embarassed.

not at all embarassed..
just sad.

Don't be. You deserve better and can do better. Don't dwell, plan your next move on a new one.

meh, everyones been in that position.

Back when I was 16, I had severe oneitis for an insanely fit rich 9/10 girl. I had had sex with her but my oneitis was severe. I was like a little puppydog to this girl, she was def getting banged on the side as she told me one day she was cheating on me with a married banker. Never been so distraught in my life, took me ages to get her out of my head. <Now I don't let any of them in.

Anyway 23 now, don't give a shit about her. Randomly got in contact with her just before christmas, arranged a meetup and a catchup. My whole sense of being with a girl, dress sense, style, weight, body, look has changed now. She was very surprised and couldn't keep her eyes off me. Took her back to hers, fucked the shit out of her.

What im saying is, dump this girl and improve your whole life not just PUA. Its definitely worth it.

meh, everyones been in that position.

Back when I was 16, I had severe oneitis for an insanely fit rich 9/10 girl. I had had sex with her but my oneitis was severe. I was like a little puppydog to this girl, she was def getting banged on the side as she told me one day she was cheating on me with a married banker. Never been so distraught in my life, took me ages to get her out of my head. <Now I don't let any of them in.

Anyway 23 now, don't give a shit about her. Randomly got in contact with her just before christmas, arranged a meetup and a catchup. My whole sense of being with a girl, dress sense, style, weight, body, look has changed now. She was very surprised and couldn't keep her eyes off me. Took her back to hers, fucked the shit out of her.

What im saying is, dump this girl and improve your whole life not just PUA. Its definitely worth it.[/quote]

For sure brotha. i feel you. thanks for the great advice and for walking me through all this. much love!



not at all embarassed..
just sad.[/quote]

Don't be. You deserve better and can do better. Don't dwell, plan your next move on a new one.[/quote]


Thank you chris.

So this girl told me she is not interested in me when I first started pickup.. Gamed her perfectly to begin with, and everything was great! Then I just became afc and didn't know what to do.. I took my a long time to tell her I liked or even show her. She knew what was going on, but I never took a move on her. Anyway, after I told her she said she only sees me as a friend and I should have told her that before as she was interested. We were still friends and we still went out for drinks. Didn't have much friends at the time and I still liked her so I wanted to see her. Lame i know. That was 2 years ago. Anyway, now that I moved to a different city she has been liking every single picture I upload on facebook and instagram. She initiated a lot of conversations with on me SPAM. Basically everyone, but I was being cold to her! She kept saying she misses me and hopes to see my again! Anyway, what's up with all this stalking? Honestly, every fucken picture I upload. I just let it go and never tell her I miss her or anything. But I still have the urge to fuck her if i get to see her again.. It's not a oneitis.. Maybe it was at one point but she never comes to my mind anymore unless she initiates conversations or likes my pictures..

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yes i truely agree...it is not one-itis...its just a girl who has been giving us mixed feelings i believe... im glad it turned out that way for you, because for me i think all hope is lost. im kind of starting to think she stands by this rule of hers that she will never ever initiate contact with another guy or something.


Hey again, Bit.

Well, i said something a long the lines of that and she responded with

"See, that's what I can't stand. When I say I'm busy or something that day or whenever. I get the " Oh, i'll leave you alone then" response. that is so annoying"

Is that a good thing or a bad thing? lol. And what should i respond to that? or should i not respond