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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:26 pm 
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Good stuff man, well done :) The 'busy' thing worked, and the Valentines day was great stuff, so you did well!

What I'd say would be something along the lines of "Ok, we should go to (such and such), place, good place. If dinner goes well we could do something even MORE fun on your birthday ;)" but as long as you see her tonight - and go for a kiss no matter what!!! - then it doesn't matter what you say so much, as long as it's easygoing and cool.

Good luck on your dinner :)
Woooooot! I feel as if this is the first time any of my "pua tactics" "worked"

advice on how to move in for the kiss? or PM me :) thanks bruv


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:51 pm 
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To be honest, dinner isn't the greatest place to set up for a kiss, but you'll have a chance at the end and at the beginning even for some kino and stuff, so you can gauge the moment there and then. There's all sorts of stuff written down around here on day 2's anyway, but it's all situation specific. You'll just have to figure it all out there and then.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 7:00 pm 
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To be honest, dinner isn't the greatest place to set up for a kiss, but you'll have a chance at the end and at the beginning even for some kino and stuff, so you can gauge the moment there and then. There's all sorts of stuff written down around here on day 2's anyway, but it's all situation specific. You'll just have to figure it all out there and then.
Damnit! well last time we hung out, she kinda brushed my face with her hand before i dropped her off, and i reacted kinda weird and said," Well, since you don't like hugs, heres a high five!" And she laughed really hard and looked at me like "you shoulda kissed me"

Maybe i'll do it when i drop her off....does a kiss on the cheeck still count? or the forehead?


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Man stop being a robot, she likes you, saying you are "fat" is a shit test.
Just relax


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Man stop being a robot, she likes you, saying you are "fat" is a shit test.
Just relax

haha for sure man. thanks


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:28 pm 
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Good stuff man, well done :) The 'busy' thing worked, and the Valentines day was great stuff, so you did well!

What I'd say would be something along the lines of "Ok, we should go to (such and such), place, good place. If dinner goes well we could do something even MORE fun on your birthday ;)" but as long as you see her tonight - and go for a kiss no matter what!!! - then it doesn't matter what you say so much, as long as it's easygoing and cool.

Good luck on your dinner :)
fuck dude, i don't get what is up with this chick bro. I think i'm just gonna call it quits and move on. She is losing my interest, and losing it fast.

Anyways remember how I told her the valentines day stuff and then asked her to get dinner with me tonight because i couldn't wait that until Valentines?

OK, anyways. she responded with

"But okay, Are you gonna pick a place for dinner? hehehe"

so that's pretty much saying YES we are going to dinner.

Now she fucking sends me this

"I actually can't tonight. I'm such a busy bee now cause school started. study time"

KEEP IN MIND. ITS A FUCKING FRIDAY NIGHT AND U HAVE TO STUDY? SERIOUSLY? Fuck this girl dude. i'm done.


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Good stuff man, well done :) The 'busy' thing worked, and the Valentines day was great stuff, so you did well!

What I'd say would be something along the lines of "Ok, we should go to (such and such), place, good place. If dinner goes well we could do something even MORE fun on your birthday ;)" but as long as you see her tonight - and go for a kiss no matter what!!! - then it doesn't matter what you say so much, as long as it's easygoing and cool.

Good luck on your dinner :)
fuck dude, i don't get what is up with this chick bro. I think i'm just gonna call it quits and move on. She is losing my interest, and losing it fast.

Anyways remember how I told her the valentines day stuff and then asked her to get dinner with me tonight because i couldn't wait that until Valentines?

OK, anyways. she responded with

"But okay, Are you gonna pick a place for dinner? hehehe"

so that's pretty much saying YES we are going to dinner.

Now she fucking sends me this

"I actually can't tonight. I'm such a busy bee now cause school started. study time"

KEEP IN MIND. ITS A FUCKING FRIDAY NIGHT AND U HAVE TO STUDY? SERIOUSLY? Fuck this girl dude. i'm done.
You said it ^ Move on. You don't want a chick that pulls this kinda shit anyway.


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Good stuff man, well done :) The 'busy' thing worked, and the Valentines day was great stuff, so you did well!

What I'd say would be something along the lines of "Ok, we should go to (such and such), place, good place. If dinner goes well we could do something even MORE fun on your birthday ;)" but as long as you see her tonight - and go for a kiss no matter what!!! - then it doesn't matter what you say so much, as long as it's easygoing and cool.

Good luck on your dinner :)
fuck dude, i don't get what is up with this chick bro. I think i'm just gonna call it quits and move on. She is losing my interest, and losing it fast.

Anyways remember how I told her the valentines day stuff and then asked her to get dinner with me tonight because i couldn't wait that until Valentines?

OK, anyways. she responded with

"But okay, Are you gonna pick a place for dinner? hehehe"

so that's pretty much saying YES we are going to dinner.

Now she fucking sends me this

"I actually can't tonight. I'm such a busy bee now cause school started. study time"

KEEP IN MIND. ITS A FUCKING FRIDAY NIGHT AND U HAVE TO STUDY? SERIOUSLY? Fuck this girl dude. i'm done.
You said it ^ Move on. You don't want a chick that pulls this kinda shit anyway.

The annoying thing is though, if i dont delete her from facebook and everything else she will just keep "popping" up in my life. And it's annoying how she has the ability to do that. But i guess i also have the ability to resist and not reply. But i like the feeeling of having someone to text, and call baby. But i guess it aint worth it.


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You have one-itis and will never get this girl. Delete her from everything and move on. You messed up, accept it, and move on.


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You have one-itis and will never get this girl. Delete her from everything and move on. You messed up, accept it, and move on.
i DONT have one-itis.

i have already deleted her number bro you dont understand, but i may be AFC. but no where near one-itis.


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fuck dude, i don't get what is up with this chick bro. I think i'm just gonna call it quits and move on. She is losing my interest, and losing it fast.

Anyways remember how I told her the valentines day stuff and then asked her to get dinner with me tonight because i couldn't wait that until Valentines?

OK, anyways. she responded with

"But okay, Are you gonna pick a place for dinner? hehehe"

so that's pretty much saying YES we are going to dinner.

Now she fucking sends me this

"I actually can't tonight. I'm such a busy bee now cause school started. study time"

KEEP IN MIND. ITS A FUCKING FRIDAY NIGHT AND U HAVE TO STUDY? SERIOUSLY? Fuck this girl dude. i'm done.
You said it ^ Move on. You don't want a chick that pulls this kinda shit anyway.

The annoying thing is though, if i dont delete her from facebook and everything else she will just keep "popping" up in my life. And it's annoying how she has the ability to do that. But i guess i also have the ability to resist and not reply. But i like the feeeling of having someone to text, and call baby. But i guess it aint worth it.
Don't delete her. Ignore her typical conversation starters or negs on you for a while (several weeks). If she confronts you about how you've been acting lately, be completely oblivious to what she is talking about and act as if everything fine (which you should strive for anyway). If you think about it, she does this to you and you are the one chasing her; its the exact same thing.

The feeling of having someone to text does not have to stop. Learn from your experiences with this girl and find another who expresses a genuine interest. Just remember to ignore her and maintain the appearance I mentioned.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 11:30 pm 
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You have SEVERE oneitis for this girl and either

A) Don't listen to anyone on this forum.
B) Don't use the information we give you in the correct way.

Delete her number and start from basics because at the moment she is taking you for a riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiide.


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You said it ^ Move on. You don't want a chick that pulls this kinda shit anyway.[/quote]


The annoying thing is though, if i dont delete her from facebook and everything else she will just keep "popping" up in my life. And it's annoying how she has the ability to do that. But i guess i also have the ability to resist and not reply. But i like the feeeling of having someone to text, and call baby. But i guess it aint worth it.[/quote]

Don't delete her. Ignore her typical conversation starters or negs on you for a while (several weeks). If she confronts you about how you've been acting lately, be completely oblivious to what she is talking about and act as if everything fine (which you should strive for anyway). If you think about it, she does this to you and you are the one chasing her; its the exact same thing.

The feeling of having someone to text does not have to stop. Learn from your experiences with this girl and find another who expresses a genuine interest. Just remember to ignore her and maintain the appearance I mentioned.[/quote]


The thing is though, she doesnt even start conversations with me. I'm always the one texting her and initiating the conversation so i figure the best way to go about that is to delete her number, right?!

But yeah man. i will ignore her and maintain. thanks a lot i really appreciate it.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 11:35 pm 
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I think I'm gonna have to go with BITMIXIT and delete this bitch out of my life. It's done.


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I think I'm gonna have to go with BITMIXIT and delete this bitch out of my life. It's done.
If you think thats what you need then go for it. However, if you do delete from facebook, it contradicts the "everything is fine" appearance you were trying to maintain if she were to contact you. If she doesn't initiate often this won't even be that difficult for you initially. When she eventually does, if she has in interest in you, you have to ignore ignore ignore.


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