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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:07 am 
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me: want to join me on tv tomorrow?
her: on tv??? O.o lol
me: I'm gonna be on the news
her: for what? that's scary
me: im planning on robbing a bank and looking for a partner in crime. You'd be perfect for the job!
her: lmao crazy
me: j/k. first, you have to be initiated in our cool kids club. you'll need ten gold stars to get in
her: #fake (yes she used a fuckin hashtag)
me: well isn't that cute? how was your new years?


didn't get a text back.

what did I do wrong?


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 Post subject: Re: critique my texts
PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:16 am 
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Ya dude she's probably just not really interested. Otherwise she would have played along with your playful texts. You may want to be a bit more original next time also as that bank robbery thing is a bit old. Find another excuse in a few weeks to text her to test the waters again.


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 Post subject: Re: critique my texts
PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 9:53 am 
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Ya dude she's probably just not really interested. Otherwise she would have played along with your playful texts. You may want to be a bit more original next time also as that bank robbery thing is a bit old. Find another excuse in a few weeks to text her to test the waters again.
I agree with ben due to her emotionless responses. Don't send another message for a while. Do you have any prior association to this girl to initiate a conversation once you've given it a few weeks?


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 Post subject: Re: critique my texts
PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 5:02 pm 
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Texting is always a bane since it can be hap-hazard.

For this reason you should send as few messages as possible. Don't try to run "game" via text; you're too prone to slip up because there are so many unknown variables ie: Not knowing her properly, her mood, and how your messages may be interpreted/misinterpreted.

Instead just arrange the next meeting asap with as few messages and words per message as possible and keep it practical. For example I always send a generic message form that goes something like this:

"Hey, it was completely random but cool running into you. I had a great time with my friends, hope you had fun too (topical; based on the initial close). I'll be meeting friends again on tues but I will be free from 6pm. Let's meet up."

When I do get a reply I then only reply once to her confirming: "Great, ill meet you at (location) at (time)!

BUT, whether or not you get a response mostly hangs on the initial interaction you had in the street or bar so make it good. You can increase the likelihood of receiving a response in a myriad of ways such as: staying in set for at least 10 mins, arranging the next meet face to face, and talking about the next meet positively ie: "We'll have so much fun, we'll do this, this and this, you'll love it...etc"

Alternatively, you could call. But keep it short and be the first to say "I have to go."


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