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PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2013 7:16 am 
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Here is some general info on the night

I went to a New Year's Eve party with acquaintances and a bunch of people I have never seen before except for a girl who I have hung out as friends in the past who I will call wingwoman. I had a sporting event so I didn't arrive at the party until about 10pm while everyone else was at the party about 7pm. The girl to guy ratio was really quite poor, 7 single girls to 14 single guys. And out of the 7 girls maybe two of them were girls that I would consider going after. So obviously everyone else at the party thought these two girls were really hot for the party (HB 7.5, HB 9) The HB 9 is cute but doesn't know it, both of whom happened to be acquaintances of mine. All the guys at one point hit on these girls that night.

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I get to the house at about 10 pm, I make my way around introducing myself to people I don't know and say hello to the people I know. The 2 HB's come and say hi, they are shy and innocent but they were eager to say hello to me. I play my cards and head downstairs and start talking to some of the guys I have never talked to before and sit at the drumset out of the way of everyone. The 2 HB's come downstairs and talk to some of their friends. Then they spot me and make their way over towards me in the corner and make conversation with me. I end up setting my mind on that I want to hook up with HB 9 by the end of the night, who I have always thought was super cute from school.

So I talk about things that interest her, get kino going and just have a good time. I dhv'd a lot and had great game that night. So the new year has been brought in upstairs I say cheers to everyone. We then all head back downstairs, I was on the couch with wingwomen looking at twitter or something silly like that together when the HB 9 asked her HB 7.5 friend to cuddle with her. The HB 7.5 helped me out by saying I don't want to move or whatever. So I invite the HB 9 onto my couch, with limited room, she said she wouldn't be able to fit but I said sure you can.

So immediately she gets on the couch and I throw my arm around her. I grab her hand and start looking at her nails (great way to get some kino continued) then I just casually kiss her on the cheek. She looks at me and I do it again. She then reciprocates. Then before I know it I am building so much sexual tension, which lead to making out.

So before we know it, all the people have left downstairs to head back upstairs and the other people turned the lights out. So we are petting each other making out, I am grabbing her ass, kissing her neck etc.

So here comes the start of my cockblocks:

-Her friend comes down stairs to make sure she is alright, turns on all the lights, we yell back YES (then we continue, she is going really crazy right now, kissing like crazy and really horny)
-one of the tenants is saying we could use a room, but this just disrupts our make out session altogether and we go upstairs because he has all the lights on and is looking for something

So 4 of us catch a cab ride home, HB 9 is in the cab along with HB 7.5 and wingwoman. I walk 5 mins from where the cab dropped us off

So that night my text game with HB 9 went like this:

HB 9: You're cute :)
Me: I know :) ahah you're super cute
HB 9: Happy New Years night :)
HB 9: Text us when your home!
Me: Ok I'm home cutie
HB 9: We are glad you are safe!
Me: You have the nicest ass i've touched :)
HB 9: Haha can't decide if that's a compliment or not!
Me: For sure a compliment!
HB 9: Haha well thanks ;)
Me: I wouldn't mind a cuddle buddy tonight ;)
HB 9: Haha I wouldn't have minded!
HB 9: Cuddling is kinda my favorite :)
Me: You know where I live :)
HB 9: Haha and you know where I am staying!
Me: Your nips can get hard in the cold!!
HB 9: Haha or just thinking about you!

We continued that for a bit then said good night as she was tired

I texted her the next day

Me: It was fun getting to know you, hope to see you again sometime.
HB9: You too! We could probably arrange that :)

And more info the HB 9 is like a super virgin who hasn't ever hooked up before, she has had 2 boyfriends but never hooked up randomly. I wish I just had escalated better in the dark. I am just curious as to how I should play this out now...I typed this up so fast, I haven't proofed it all sorry in advance


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2013 6:45 pm 
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Firstly, please don't write this much. You can't expect people to read all of this.

Since she is a virgin, I don't think it would be a good idea trying to sleep with her on NY party. Though she might wanted this just to get monkey of her back. Especially if she was drinking.

When her friend enters the room, she is not there trying to cockblock you, she is there to make sure her friend is ok. You should have hive fived her and say "You are such a great friend for doing this. If things don't work out between you to, you are going to be my new best friend ;)"

I did not like that text "Finest ass I have touched". WTF is with this? Someone who reads this has a mental image of you touching other girls's asses, not a good thing.

As for how to continue this. Just go out with her on a date, and try to bring her home for a movie or something. If she doesn't want to come home with you that night, repeat the procedure, and next time she will.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 3:31 am 
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First of all I think you did well given the circumstances, don't overthink it and arrange to meet up with her. If you do see her again, I advise building a bit more comfort as she may just think you wanna get hot and steamy again and get buyer's remorse. If you do make out with her, you should be the one slowing it down if it gets too hot, you don't want to be ALL over her too fast.
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I did not like that text "Finest ass I have touched". WTF is with this? Someone who reads this has a mental image of you touching other girls's asses, not a good thing.
I disagree with this. There is nothing wrong in subtly letting a girl know that you have/have had lots of women in your life, pre-selection. You know a fine ass when you grab one.

So yeah, go on a date. DO try and escalate, but you should also be building comfort and rapport and getting to know her if you want to continue things with her.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 4:27 am 
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Just go out and have a nice day with her.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 4:37 am 
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I know that was an extremely long write up...

When her friend left the room I told the HB 9 I was hooking up with her that she is a great friend for her for checking up on her.

I was drunk texting her when I told her she had a nice ass, and I see nothing wrong with it as I am extremely weird but I conscientiously know that and use these weird statements to my advantage.

Throughout the night we talked about our personal lives, she said she loved working with kids and she was enrolled in pediatrics, at that point I had a picture of my little sister that I showed her to build some comfort to show here that I was good with kids too. We talked a lot about school and future endeavors. I threw in sexual tension throughout the night but it was different than most drunk hookups.

I am in a sticky spot though, I was only home on NYE as I play a semi pro sport out of town about 2 hours away, so how often should I text her as well?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2013 7:43 am 
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I am in a sticky spot though, I was only home on NYE as I play a semi pro sport out of town about 2 hours away, so how often should I text her as well?
If you can come home again soon, then keep texting her. When you do come home make sure you try to sleep with her .

If you are not coming home again soon, you can text her couple of times a week, just to make sure you are in her mind. "Hey something reminded me of you..." and similar things. Also you can insert Future Adventure something (I forgot the acronime). Example "I just talked to my brother who is at xxx. I will so have to take you there, we will do xxx, you will love it. And if you are not good, I will make you wear high heels from last time". (callback hurmour) blabla.

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