| I met girl A back around thanksgiving but I had another girl (B) I was sort of dating, around while I met girl A. I didn't really talk to Girl A too much except the usual teasing her and calling her the wrong name (even though I knew her name.) Ofcourse that worked because she is an HB9 and is used to guys giving her lots of attention.
A little background info on the situation: I am military and I am away a lot but I am about to come home for good. I talked to girl A a few times since I met her and she kept telling me to come home, used a lot of smiley faces and I didn't really pay her too much attention because I barely knew her and didn't want to spend too much effort towards her considering shes my best friends' fuckbuddys' best friend.
So, I go home for the holidays for a few days and finally hang out with her. The first few nights we planned to hang out and did so but in a social setting (bar, house party.) I have a lot of friends and have a high social value considering I talk to a lot of people and am barely home, so when I do go home everyone wants to hang out. I got her in the hottub with her and had a lot of kino (making out, she was on my lap) but I couldn't seal the deal that night cause I got a bit drunk and she had to work in the morning. The next day I went out with my friends for drinks and she showed up to the bar. I said hello to her when she walked in but went back to talking to my friends and this other random HB9 I've known for a good hour. Girl A's friend kept coming up to me telling me to go talk to her and to go kiss her, (I guess Girl A was complaining that I wasn't giving her any attention because she came there to see me). I ended up just leaving and kissing her goodbye at the end of the night.
Girl A ended up texting me the next morning and we decided to hang out that night for the new years party. I decided not to get drunk so I could close the deal. I brought my A game that night pulling all the tricks I could (teasing, push-pull, kino, humor) I made her kiss me if she wanted a kiss for the ball dropping and we kept sneaking in the other room to make out, then I would go back to hanging out with my friends. I ended up going home with her and we slept in the same bed. We both drank a little bit but neither of us were drunk. When we got to the bed, she got on top of me and I thought I was in. I was kissing her neck and we made out for a good hour laying in bed, but she said she didn't know me well enough to have sex because she isn't that kind of girl.
The next day(my last night there), I invited her over to watch a movie and hang out(completely sober). We did a lot of cuddling, talking and kissing. I finally had sex with her after about 2 hours of work, and we just shared some stories and talked about each others goals (nothing too serious). She said I should just stay there with her, but obviously I can't because I am military and had to go back. We cuddled some more but I had to be up in 3 hours so she went home.
This girl is an amazing girl, not like one I've met before. She is beautiful and smart with a lot of goals in life. She is sweet but just a little ditzy. She was in a very LTR but got cheated on a few years ago. I tried to talk to her the day I came back home and she was very slow to text back but showing interest in her texts. I proceeded to tell her I wanted to talk to her more and get to know her better because I am coming home for good in a month and I will see her again. She said that she will talk to me when she can, (she is very busy and goes out with her friends and my friends when she is not working or going to school) but she will still be there when I get back.
I didn't talk to her at all today because I don't wanna show too much interest considering I might have already done that telling her I was bummed that I don't get to see her for a month. I've only seen her about 7 times but the few we spent flirting and together were great. I just want to make sure I don't mess this up because she is a girl I could see myself dating. She is a horrible texter, always has been since I met her. Her and my friends usually call me when they go out and I talk to her for a bit just joking around with her but that seems like the only way we are going to communicate. She gets a LOT of attention from other guys but I know she doesn't really sleep with any of them because I have the inside scoop for the most part.
Should I text her or call her ever? even though I know most of her day is tied up with work and school? Or just let it ride and see her in a month. I don't want the initial feelings to fade too far but I also don't want to suffocate her with the situation.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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