3 Tactics for Emotional Connection
BUILD INTENSE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH SHARED VALUES.
If someone shares our values we automatically feel closer to him as if we've known them for longer than we actually have. However, if someone feels that what we value isn't important we feel the sting and distance between this "irrational" person.

FURTHER EVIDENCE.
How would you feel towards someone who is pro-abortion, racist or believes in manipulation if you personally believed in pro-life, equality and being 100% real?
The reason why the KKK was so close to each other (f-them btw) is because they were held together very strongly by shared values.
Believe in strongly in what the girl believes in (without it seeming forced or try hard) and she will feel an emotional bond with you simply because of that.

TACTIC#1: PROJECT COMMON VALUES.
So you don't know exactly what she values so how are supposed to share common values? Well, an alternative to indirectly asking her is to just project common values that someone like her would appreciate. For Example, most people value "Enjoying Life". So talk about how important it is to live life to the fullest because you can assume that most probably she has the same value anyways.

TACTIC#2: SAY WHAT YOU VALUE WITH PASSION AND CONVICTION.
Anyone can say he believes in "Trust" in a relationship as if he's reading a script. It doesn't mean he really believes in it with his whole being. Our non-verbal communication speak volumes. To show that you're not reading a script but rather you're saying what truly is in your heart say it with a strong fiery enthusiasm as if you truly believe in it with your whole heart and soul. THAT leaves an impact. NOT reading a script.

TACTIC#3: DEEP INSIGHT PROVES YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN IT.
This is hard to explain. A professional athlete who's dedicated his whole life to professional football will inevitably have a different perspective on life in general than a homeless person living off people's trash. People with different value systems have a different view on life. That's why if you want to become successful you speak to someone who's successful because you want to adopt his mentalities that made him so successful.
By having deep insights into the value that you are trying to portray that you have, you're demonstrating that you really consider that value important because it's become a PART of who you are.

EXAMPLES OF PHRASES YOU CAN USE.
IMAGINE SAYING EACH ONE WITH ABSOLUTE CONVICTION AND PASSION.
"In life there is no second chance."
"Life comes and goes and you've got to grab it while you still can."
"In a blink of an eye the day is over. Enjoy it while it lasts."
"If you can't trust someone you feel that you don't know him for who he really is."
"How long will you wait till do what you really want to do?"

One big topic to create emotional connection is "Family". Girls love guys that are close to their family, or at least say the do, because that sub-communicates you are going to stay around, to take care of the kids, etc.

Basically when you display any of the attraction switches:

Pre-selected by women
Leader of men
Protector of loved ones
Willing to emote

In the other hand you can easily create connection with cold reading.

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