Their is this girl and shes been a extremely close friend for about a year, for the past couple monthes i've been pushing subtlely to make it into something more and she made it seem like she wanted more too.

Two days ago:
We watched a movie with a group of friends and her and I were sitting next to each other with arms touching and just close the entire time which normally were not because before we were just friends, So I got over the touch barrier which was good

Yesterday we both went to a new years eve party and I was the centre of attention within her group of friends, We were holding hands and I had my arm around her for part of the night and then at midnight she pointed to her lips and told me to kiss her so I did and we made out for a few seconds. Except she did that with a couple other guys except only pecks. Than this morning I wasnt sure whether she did that just because it was new years and she had a couple drinks (not super drunk (I wouldnt have kissed her if she was because thats not something I want to do)) So I texted her asking "Was that kiss real or was it just the alcohol acting" She replied saying she wasnt sure but she wanted to kiss me otherwise she wouldnt have"

Today We hung out and went tobboganing and she just kinda avoided me most of the time and didnt laugh at my jokes (She always comments about how halarious I am)

Any advice should I text her asking what the deal is? Please help, I want this to work out as more than friends. Were both 17 by the way. (Im new to game but the tips I've been doing have helped greatly)

overthinking way too much.
Losing who you are and you will eventually lose her interest because you will creep her out.

What you really need to do right now is to forget what happen and do other things and hangout with other girls or friends. Stop texting her because you will be needy give her space and when you can be normal again. Maybe then you can ask her out but right now you are really really really needy as fudge.

And dont get into pickup at 17, its bad for you cause most people here gonna make you overthink and complicate things.

However a good video to take your mind off:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gk5OhR21 ... A&index=16

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Thanks alot for that! She texts me first alot too so should I reply or just say im busy and cant talk right now or something like that?

You really need to make it clear that you are interested in her and make it face to face to say it. So ask for a date.
Basically just hangout.
At that age, girls tempt to over think cause their friends are really bitches who just talk to her no sens and she cant event think herself.

Try to have some 1v1 time with her, tell her exactly what you fell, remember to look at her in the eyes hopefully some smile XD If you want you can take her hands etc. (eye contact is really important!!)

but remember you are doing this like a man, look at her eyes and tell her your feeling and listen.

Dont overthink. its an experience nothing more result is totally shit that you dont care about.

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Well were going to watch a scary movie at the one of the local cinimas on thursday so before hand we will probably hang out for an hour or so, Would that be a good idea to do it or should I just scrap the movie idea and just hangout with her so we can actually talk! The problem is that everyone thinks im halarious and I've fallen into a category where im not known to be serious and just joke around all the time. Everyone thinks im fun its just im not serious... I realize its my own fault but any tips on people looking at me as being a little bit more serious?! I feel like inside im actually shy and I rely on my humor to overcome it!

nah, you dont need to overthink here, she is into you, just be what you are. I think you know exactly what to do here, you just start to doubt yourself because you think there is masters out there will fixe everthing with magic lines.
But the true it. there is none.
Dont worry no buddy is totally confident or sure of themselves.

But watching some RSD stuff wont hurt. XD

If you want watch something funny, watch simple pickup.

you are just 17, so many adventure is a head of you, just live this one fully.

Cheers!

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Lets not beat around the bush, I think you are in the friendzone and dont have enough game to get out. I would advise you blow this girl off whilst acting like your too busy having fun to meet up. Re-engage her in a week or two with the correct frame and you may have a chance. Telling her your true feelings isn't going to help you at all, she already suspects what they are and isn't impressed.

Well detox, If I am in the friendzone, What would you do if you were in my situation to get out of it? And ya I'll go a week and just see how it goes. She texts me everyday though so I think she will think that im mad or something?

Do not text asking "what the deal is?" What ever you do. For 2 reason I'll tell you why. Reason number one and most importantly; You already know what the deal is(in a sec you will). That's the biggest thing. Remember you know exactly what's going on, and you're not confused by what happened, what you're going to do about it, and will not be surprised by, nor unprepared for anything that could happen in the future.

So what IS the deal..."Was that kiss real or was it just the alcohol acting"... what the heck are you trying to ask her?... Was that kiss real?!? You could have just asked me that. Yes, you really did kiss her, it happened in real life, it wasn't a dream. But that's not what you really want to know, I have no idea what your asking, she has no idea, you have no idea, sounds awkward and uncomfortable. She gave you the best answer she could. "I'm not sure(what you're really asking me) but I wanted to kiss you." DON'T make it more awkward and uncomfortable, just drop it because of reason number 2.

She WANTED to kiss you. If you feel like you "Need help quick!" you're anxious.. Relax and play-on playa. The more you ask her to get rid of your anxiety the more uncomfortable she will feel around you.

What you should have texted her the next day was something like "hope last night wont be just a yearly thing " You would have got a similar answer "i dont know hehe" but this time you're having fun.

Laugh, thanks for that! Thats actually really good! So what I learnt from that is, I want to seem like im at ease at all times, I need to be chill and not worry about this. What she texts me isnt a big deal no matter what it is and I just need to relax and have some fun with this! I also think that I need to be more laidback right?

Also on another note, does that mean that I should wait for her to text me like she usually does?

Hahaha I wouldn't say "no matter what it is"

haha yeah, just be yourself, but not the "actually talk" "serious" "what's the deal" yourself. Even if she's weird at first just remember she really thought you were funny. You can make her laugh again.

If she usually text you then maybe wait til its been longer then usually before you do the texting. Keep the same M.O. as usually

okay that sounds good, she asked what i was doing tomorrow and I said watching a movie with a friend and she guessed who it was (I really am watching a movie with a girl) and than I said wow howd you guess, ya creep we were joking around and than she was like (well thats the only girl you talk too soo...) and I said and why do you think that. She responded with (Well I guessed right... enough said) ... I dont even know what to say to that, I cant tell if shes mad, jealous or what. Shes kinda being a jerk so I just ignored it and havnt answered back, that was about 20 mintues ago... any tips?

hahah idk man, but i hope you get your girl. Don't over think. Hell, just ask her if she wants to kiss you. Sounds like it might be that easy.

haha I would, but shes been avoiding me and not wanting to hangout with me for some reason. Guess that ship has sailed

Lucky.

I haven't talked to the girl I like because she hasn't texted me in over 5 days. I deleted her number so i can't always initiate the conversation.