Out at the bar I am a regular at, my roommate's FB and her friend are there shooting the shit with me. Obviously, I am trying to get with the friend, who is a decent 8. They are sitting at the bar, I am standing next to them leaning on the bar. In walks this bartender that I know who works there. Solid 9, really cute. In the past, we have flirted, but nothing serious. Just some back and forth banter, throwing stuff at each other, etc...

She sees me and runs over, I put my hand up for a high-five and she grabs it and hangs on as she moves to the other side of me, opposite the girls I was talking to. I ask her what she is doing there on her day off, etc... She then asks me if she is being a cock block, and I say sorta as a half-joke. She seems to get offended, her friend comes over and I go back to talking to the other girls. I figured I had a much better chance with my roommate's FB's friend anyways.

The bartender comes back over after a while and starts flirting with me again, and says, "I don't want to be a cock block for you, but I could be because I am better looking than both of them." I just said wow and laughed, her friend came back over to get her again and I went back to talking to the other girls. They, of course, got a little jealous and asked who she was, I just said she was a bartender. The rest of the night I catch her looking over at me, staring, etc... On my way back from the bathroom, she grabbed my face and waved her hand in front of it. Then she jumped out of the way and yelled that she didn't want to cock block me and waved me on. At the end of the night, I was talking with the girls getting ready to leave, and the bartender sat in the seat behind me with her head down looking at her phone. I'm sure she saw me walk out with the one girl holding my arm.

Now, next time I see her working, should I ask her what was up? She was drunk, so she might play it off that she was blacked out and doesn't remember anything. Or should I not bring it up and flirt a little more than usual? Should I call her cock block as a nickname? She was obviously jealous, which is weird for me to see from her because she is usually confident in herself. If she asks about the girl leaving with me, how much do I tell her? Do I tell her she came home with me? Or just leave it candid?

Thanks for any help, I'd really like to sleep with this bartender and now think it might be easier than I originally thought.

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Now, next time I see her working, should I ask her what was up?
>>>Absolutely not as this will be too forward and make her uncomfortable

Or should I not bring it up and flirt a little more than usual?
>>>Yes, and try escalating

Should I call her cock block as a nickname?
>>>Fuck yeah

If she asks about the girl leaving with me, how much do I tell her? Do I tell her she came home with me? Or just leave it candid?
>>>Keep her guessing. I'd say something like "we broke into a museum and stole an art piece that we then sold on e-Bay" or anything funny/stupid/silly.

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Thanks for the reply man...

So we went in there tonight for some drinks/billiards. Someone brought up how drunk she was that night, and I guess my roommate asked her if she remembered asking me if she was cock blocking and the comments she made. Next time I went up to her she apologized and asked if the girls I was talking to heard her. I told her she said it pretty loud and they may have heard her, and she again apologized. I told her I am calling her cock block from now on, and she called me an asshole in a playful way.

Not really sure how to escalate from here though, as she gets hit on pretty often being a good looking bartender. I don't want to blend in with the rest of them...

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You won't blend in with the rest if you play your cards right. Push-pull will be critical here. As a starting point, find an excuse to put your hands on hers, or to put your arm around her, but quickly pull back.

For instance, assuming there's no live music playing or it's not too loud, say something like... "Hey, come here, I gotta tell you something..." Then put your arm around her as you whisper "those girls over there have been staring at me for a while. I plan on talking to them, and this time you won't cock block me, bitch," then give her a quick kiss on the cheek [OR alternatively, simply place your cheek near/on hers as you're whispering to her AND make sure you smell damn good], and in the span of two seconds: pull away from her face as you give her a smirk/smile looking in her eyes, slide your arm away from her in a quick and gentle fashion, and turn around to go talk to them.

Feel free to change it up a bit depending on your frame. But this achieves a few things: (1) if she's interested in you, she'll be jealous, (2) demonstrates your confidence and dominance, (3) effectively gives her butterflies in her stomach from the sensual touching (if delivered correctly), and (4) you're basically flirting with her, but then it's rather innocent/casual/unintentional.

That should set you apart from the other AFCs in the bar.

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Thanks Fly, I like the sound of that. I'll definitely do some push-pull to keep her on her toes.

I'll probably see her sometime this weekend, and I'll see if she is going to the new year's eve event at the bar. The girl I brought home the other night is supposed to be going, so we'll see if the jealousy is still there. I remembered that the bartender slapped my ass after she told me she was hotter than the other girls that night, but I got too drunk to effectively game both her and the girl I was talking to. Maybe I won't get so drunk for new years, even though it is open bar...

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Well that didn't work, still feeling the hangover effects from that night...

Turns out she was bartending the NYE event. I got there a little early because my roommate had to setup to DJ, we all took a shot together even though she isn't supposed to drink while working. She asked me if the girls she cockblocked me last time were coming in, I told her they were. When they got there, it was a little awkward. There were signs of jealousy from both sides, it was quite evident. My "date" and I got pretty drunk at the bar (I mean come on, free shots and drinks of ANYTHING), and I'm not sure how much of an ass I made of myself. My date was all over me, making out with me at the bar, etc... and I'm sure the bartender saw.

I'm not sure how to act next time I see her though. I feel like I was a sloppy drunk that night, but I made sure to tip for every drink/shot even though it was an open bar. Guess I'll have to gauge her body language next time I go in...

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Maybe try this one. Go back there again, this time ditch the skirts. Tell the barkeep that you are pissed at her. When she asks why, tell her that you were trying to sleep with that girl you were with but you ended up getting into a drunken fight with her when you got home because she said you kept staring at the barkeep the whole night. And you didn't get laid because of that. Then say something about how 'cockblock' is a fitting moniker for her.

Hopefully she'll say something flirty and sexual like she owes you a lay or something. Either way, it will let her know that you didn't sleep with that other girl because of her and it'll make her feel special. And I guess if you have to keep pushing it then tell her that she has to make it up with you and take you out on a date.

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