How should i go about on setting up a date? should i ask or say

Just look her in the eyes and say "I want to see you again".

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I have to return some videotapes...

Dude I'm new to all this. In fact I have a girlfriend so probably shouldn't even be posting :facepalm:

The board could give you a better answer if you gave up some more info but I would suggest

#1 be confident

#2 remember to act busy so she thinks YOU are squeezing her into YOUR schedule rather than her thinking that you are BEGGING her for a date.

#3 Give her a few days heads up when you ask her out.

#4 Don't think that she's doing you the favor of going out with you but think the opposite. In fact don't be afraid to tell her you're busy if she suggests another day. Don't give up all your football games for a broad.

#5 Go cheap especially if it's a first date. I just meet up at a coffeeshop with my laptop and a folder/book so I give the impression that I have something going on.
!!!I've dropped so much cash on girls to learn this lesson so don't blow a lot of $$$ on first dates!!!

Good luck

This is the one. If you understand this one, you dont need anything else.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Yeah i know we've gone out twice already for dinner...but she hasnt texted me in like 3 or 4 days and i havent texted her either....so i donno what to do! lol


i also deleted her number from my phone so i wont initate texts

And what happened? Did you two have good time? Did you try to bring her to your place
Please dont do this. I used to do this shit when I was learning, and this is one stupid thing to do.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Well it went pretty good i guess we took forever to find a place to eat, like literally 1.5 hours lol driving around in circles bullshitting and talkin about bullshit...i didnt bring her to my place she had to go home she has a kid...then i asked if i could come over and she said no boys allowed lol