Does anyone think a good opener in a store during the day would be to ask a girl's opinion on something that you are buying for a 'girl' you are seeing? You wouldn't say this is your 'girlfriend' but perhaps this can be a disqualifier then go into a story about how you've gone out with this girl a few times and she went overboard buying you a gift for christmas (or some other reason) and told you about it. Now you feel obligated to get her something in return but want to send a subtle message to her and feel she is coming on strong.

I wonder though if then you look like a scumbag asking the girl for her number bc you said you are seeing someone casually? How would you close this? Maybe you say you appreciate her advice and maybe you can go grab coffee sometime or get more of her opinions that can help with dating? Or say maybe we could keep in touch and I can let you know what happened with your advice - (or what she told you to buy as a gift or to not get the girl - to tell her how the story ends)?

I realize this needs cleaning up, first time poster so thought I'd share some thoughts. Appreciate any insight out there.

I think your gameplan is solid assuming you will actually implement it. Its a little intricate for my tastes but that doesn't mean its bad.

You just need some glue-logic to justify why if you are "seeing" someone you are now hitting on her. I would not mention you are seeing a girl just say you are...

"shopping for a birthday gift for her but have mixed feelings about it, after all she is super hot and your very picky about that but yet you are holding out for something more, a real emotional connection and good sexual chemistry with someone that turns you on, someone you can get inspired about...

....continue fluff talk, break rapport, challenge, qualify, engage her emotions...

..." hey after talking with you i'm even less sure i'm going to buy this girl anything, do you think it might give her false expectations? well anyway I have to go, let me get your number, we need to hang out, your insights have somewhat impressed me"...

Thanks, really appreciate your insight, great tips to clean it up for me.

Let us know how it works out!

To add validity and pretext to your guise, be on your phone before you approach her. Within earshot of her be pretending to talk on your phone: "Yea, I know, but I have no idea what she wants. No, I'm in the store now, but I haven't got a clue!"

Just by hearing that conversation, it will conjure feelings within her of someone who needs help. She'll already be wondering what you are looking for and what that's all about. Then when you finally approach her and ask her, it will all make complete sense to her and hopefully prime her to be more responsive and helpful.

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hey how much can you drop the price on those shoes ? i want to get them for my mum
"umm sorry i cant do any discounts
nah im not interested in the shoes i just wanted to meet you what is your name you are amazing
"haha thankyou melissa
nice to meet you melissa, look me and my buddies actually leave town tonight and we want to spend it with some good company you seem like a cool chick. would you be interested?
"sure
whats your number and ill txt you later on tonight
boom.

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