So, i've been talking to this chick for a bit now and i deleted her # from my phone because i find that i initiate the conversation all the time. Anyways, it's been about 3 or 4 days and she hasn't sparked a conversation with me. But she likes and comments on my stuff on FaceBook, what is she doing? Lol.

Thanks guys.

This is the same trap many guys fall into. Waiting to see what happens with her. The way you look at it now is that "she" has to like you. Instead look at it as if you like her.

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I don't understand?

anyone??

forget about her, she'll be back.

meh, maybe =\

earlier on she told me she doesn't chase...

Hey,

I was watching one of Tyler's videos the other day and he said something really good. You cannot kiss every girl, but you can try to kiss every girl. And that is the point. Instead of overanalyzing and beating yourself up, just to something that pushes things forward. Text her "I wanna get together for a cup of coffee". If she has some interest, she will agree to see you.

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how about sayin "i would really enjoy dinner with you again"

Chicks are facebook idiots. They'll "like" something on facebook simply because it got the attention of their pea-sized brain for the two seconds it took to click the like button. She probably has 800 friends on facebook, dozens of which are guys who she was once interested in but not any longer. She probably likes shit they post too eventhough she doesn't even really remember who they are.

It's amazing how we become so narrow-minded in our perception of our own limited sphere of reality that we lose sight of we fit into the bigger picture of the world around us. Nobody is giving you subtle hints that they want you to contact them when they like your bullshit facebook comments. Freud said it best, sometime a cigar is just a cigar. Don't try to read into that stuff too much. If you like her, talk to her. If not, fuck it.

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Just not true, I'm sorry, but you're wrong. Girls definitely DO use facebook to push forward subtle hints. Girl I hadn't spoken to in like, 2 weeks, because she ignored me asking her to go for a drink, suddenly gave me a request to play this silly app which won't be named here. I waited 2 hours, then accepted and went through the motions with it.

Anyway, next morning, she texts me: "Why don't you ever text me anymore thought we were going to hook up for a drink!". I just thought, well, to hell with it, why not, and agreed.

Lots of girls show interest in you just by 'liking' your stupid crap. It's the modern, new & infinitely subtle way of flirting (at least sometimes). Hints that they want you to message them/poke them or whatever. If they've blown you off, ignoring them can drive them mad, but if you hardly know them, then it's almost a subtle invite to approach.

That's my take on it, at least.

Yea, who knows. All girls are different. But you'd have be pretty immature to think that liking someone's comments on facebook means that they should initiate communication with you for dating purposes. I could see little highschool girls doing that, because all they've ever known is facebook growing up. But adult women I would hope are a little more sophistacted/complicated than that.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

So just to reinforce what you should be doing.

It's a good point. Bit like assuming that just because someone stands next to you on a bus stop, they are attracted to you, I guess. But in my experience, the adult women on facebook do exactly the same thing. (Maybe that says something for the calibre of my 'friends' )

But I think if women are 'liking' pictures of you, liking your profile pictures, and forever commenting on your status's, pretty sure you can assume there's some interest there. If they're just liking your jokes and links on the other hand, might just be because you're hilarious of course

Hey ninja, once again, thanks for the AWESOME advice bro you rock...

Anyones. I know what you mean and I DO like her...but I deleted her from my phone because I find myself ALWAYS initiating the conversation and the text messages and that was the only way to stop it. If she hasn't texted me back should I just say fuck it and move on? Or is she just doing the "hard to get" thing?

Also, what would be a faster way to get a response? Think it's cool if i just send you PMs with my questions? thanks bro!
She told me she doesn't chase (if that is even possible o_O)

Yeah that's what I'm trying to get at right now. Hopefully she sends me that exact text.... ugh lol. That's why I brought up Facebook. It's like, by not responding to her comments, does that qualify as "ignoring" her?

also we used to text everyday, i havent talked to her since before New Years =\

Okay SORRY GUYS I FORGOT TO CLARIFY. this is a chick that i kind of like, and i think she likes me. We have gone out on TWO dates....and she just NEVER initiates conversation. So how regarding initiation. should i NOT text her until she texts me next? because i ALWAYS text her.....

She has been commenting on my food pics like "you're fat!!" when she knows im pretty skinny lol

and she liked my profile picture