So look guys, I been talking to this model on online game, and she's really attractive and all that but she like plays these odd games. Like, I'll be honest, I messed it up in the beginning, when I talked to her I didn't know much of online game so I messed up a little.

Here's the convo:
Dec 13, 2012 – 11:35am PINGED HER
Interesting snapple fun fact: snails have 4 noses - how weird lol

HER: Lol you gotta love snaple facts
Me: Especially about animals. If you was to be reincarnated as an animal what would you be and why? - Don't say a bird/lion, every girl says that lol.


HER: Lol I was gona say a lion

HER: What's your name and number .. it will be easier then this
ME: I'm JOHN >>> 1 (***) ***-****

NEVER TEXTED ME.
Dec 15, 2012 – 1:33pm
Me: You still alive? lol

Dec 15, 2012 – 1:33pm
HER: I believe so .. what's up
ME: Enjoying life! Doing some Christmas shopping today, this is a very special month for me.

So ya, I kind of feel we're getting off on the wrong foot, I can feel the energy change.. Why is that?

HER: Not at all! I'm sorry you feel that way...
Why is this a special month for u
ME :I donate toys, educational books to sick children in a hospital - it's a passion of mine to help people - I just care.

NO RESPONSE... ME: Hey, let's play a game: I'll say a word and you say the first thing that pops in your mind. The word is, "Fame".

Dec 28, 2012 – 2:53pm
ME: Whatever happen to you...

Dec 29, 2012 – 9:26am
HER: I'm still here , its just hard to sort through all these msgs :/
ME: Np, what's up? Right now I'm a concert with some ppl - seeing coldplay tonight!!!

HER: Omg !! I love coldplay !!
Lucky you, I'm at work haha
ME: It's gonna' be a blast! Btw, be polite and introduce yourself lol
HER: I thought I already have.... I'm ***** . & you
ME: I'm John. So Jane, what are your passions/aspirations in life
HER: Nice to meet u again John. My passion/aspirations in life? Well if you read my profile ...you would know that makeup artistry is my passion and I aspire to been a household name when it comes to it. Also to own my own branch of business in which are already in the works. What about yourself?
ME: Interesting; what is it about makeup artistry that you enjoy?

For me, music and charity are my passions... I enjoy helping needy/disabled kids. For music, I'm in the mide of signing a deal with BIG RECORD COMPANY - I just follow my interest.
NO RESPONSE
Jan 2, 2013 – 8:39am
ME: Did I lose you again? lol
HER: Lol just text me

So it got really bad at some points, like I'd message her twice to get her to respond, or I'd DHV and wouldn't type back, then like after 4 days of talking to her I didn't ask her name LOL it was bad. I'm putting this up here to learn, not one of my better sets. But it started out good, she liked that I was a musician and I jokingly said I'll teach her guitar, and won't charge her. So eventually I messaged her with, "Did I lose you again? lol" She said, "lol just text me *gives number*"

So after all that I messed up (at and one point tried to fix it by saying, 'look maybe we got off on the wrong foot I can feel the energy drop') she still gave me her number. I'm assuming lots of guys hit on her, but she either gave me her number to talk a little than not go on a date or because she has some attraction to me.

How should I game her?

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Im no expert, but 2 things that I wanna say.

1. It all began here..
HER: What's your name and number .. it will be easier then this
ME: I'm JOHN >>> 1 (***) ***-****

Instead of giving your name and number so fast, maybe should have said something like " Who said its gonna be easy " . Know what I mean? Not to eager to give her wat she wants. And please, stop messaging her if she doesn't message you, it comes off as verrryyy needy the way you did it. Somehow she is still giving you chances so I'd read a bit on this forum before you start making a move ,just to make sure you're ready.

2. I have a feeling this will go nowhere with this girl because you are inexperienced(or atleast it seems that way to mee). Soo what I want to tell you is, learn from this girl,see what you're doing right and wrong and take it with you the next time you talk with a girl. See this as a learning experience.

Hope I didn't sound harsh, Im just trying to give you my 2cents to help you. Good luck!

Wizzy, that helped! I noticed one of my sticking points was I don't play hard to get or I'm afraid to lose the girl. This post really taught me a lot. But to be honest, the whole purpose of talking with her was to learn, so I didn't really care how much I messaged her, I just wanted to run an experiment.

So,

1) What post's would you recommend me reading that would help
2) What can I do to get this girl?
3) How can I use cat string theory in my sets more?

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I would recommend reading the natural game forum. Read alot of threads there, (One named the selfcenteredman manifesto).

What you need to work on is being alpha by nature, then everything will come naturally and you don't have to play cat theories, neither will you be afraid to lose her as you will have (I hope) many other options beside her, by the time you become alpha(or act like one).

To get this girl, you would have to go out where she goes out, try to see where she hangs out, and go and hang out there with your friends, let her see that you're an interesting person, and then she will start to message and talk with you. Catch my drift? Work on yourself, make her notice, and all the pieces will fall. When you come this far that she is talking to you(and starting to message you,instead of you her) then you should start learning about seduction/attraction/building kino. Those things will make her sexually want you, and from there on you can see if it goes towards a relation ship/friendzone/onenight.

It all boils down to improving yourself over time(Cant be done in 1 night). So read alot, hang out more with friends, dress better, work harder, study and read more, improve life and life will improve you.

Thanks a lot dude, I'll definitely give the natural section a look at. Right now I got 4-5 girls numbers, so 1 isn't really that important - I'm getting better at game but I just liked this girl. Anyways in your own words, what can I do to

Be more Alpha
Do seduction
Build attraction
And build kino

I have my own method of doing this, but I'm interested in how you do it.

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