No shit. "Oh, that's my gay friend. This other one is my bestie. And that one is my fuck buddy..."

I knew a girl who referred to her cadre of men as "the bench", and those that weren't actively involved in her life were "riding the bench" so to speak, since they wanted to fuck her but she wouldn't let them and forced them to wait on the sidelines.

Guys are different. If they are lucky enough to have a list of women they can call up on, then they are all just fuck buddies. There's none that are deemed unworthy of fuck status, because if they were then they'd get booted out. I mean, I had this really not-attractive female friend that I'd talk to about my relationships with and shit, but it got to the point where I didn't want to deal with her any longer since it's pointless to communicate with women that you have no intent on fucking.

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Absolutely - plain and simple! Good post!

is it wrong for me to say i dont want you in my life if i aint getting something out of it. at the end of the day its only her needs being met, not mine
she gets someone to listen to her relationship shit and her personal problems.. what do i get?? nothing fuck all, the right to be in her presence, fuck that. im sorry but if i wanted to be a therapist id charge for my time and service.
honestly what do i get? i aint getting sex which was the reason we got close again. a friend i ve got enough of those as well.

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annoyingly this girl just said to me im staying your life but lets just be friends. no sex but im gonna come round your house and eat your food and watch your films.
she is basically saying dont have any sexual feelings around me, in case i can get laid elsewhere.

should i just cut her off completely

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Geez, i dont understand the big deal.

i've got an ex who's sometimes on my case. today she asked how she would know if i suddenly expired. i told her, she wouldn't know...end of! the she started getting all antsy about something so i told her i'm hanging up now.

if you dont want to deal with her just dont respond. you dont have to tell her anything. but i wouldnt burn your bridges. you never know when you might need a friend regardless of how attractive or not they are.