So some of you know that I got out of a 4 year relationship recently and been trying to get my game back up. Well, I messed around with this girl and she really wanted it. I thought what the hell why not. (I really wanted to wait and take it slow though for some reason). Then after we did it, we started talking and she seemed reallllly into me, too into me. I told her already about the whole relationship thing and how I don't want to jump into one anytime soon. She seemed really pissed about it and didn't really talk. Later on after I dropped her off she texted me saying sorry. I feel like its gonna come up again and I had this scenario happen and it didn't end well either. Any thoughts/suggestions?

She just see you as her BF material and she is probably the type to get what she want in life and what you did by dropping is stripping her of all her validation, she want it back so she need to have you again.

a simple way to keep it as a fuck friend is to say that you dont want to rush things into a serious relationship because of your past experience however she is an awesome person so, you'd love to see her again.
That way she will work to win you validation by investing faithfully in you and she will make also space so you can game.

However, this is not a long time strategy, fuck friends only last until she find another guy or you decide to go to the next level but that will help you buy 3-4 months to truly know her and decide if you want her after all or not.
Most of the time, you are an active guy that actually go out to alot of social event (NOT ONLY Clubs) you will find other girls that is better then her.

Hope its help!

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Cheers mate!

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Thanks man. Thats some real good advice. I was looking for the extra time, but at the same time would it looked bad if I started dancing with other girls at this concert type thing when she might be there? I don't want it to ruin our friendship and at the same time make me look like a player, when I'm just trying to expand my horizons then to be in her heart shaped box.

Only solution here would be going other club that she is in, if she is in your club, you have no choice to spend the time with her.

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