Hello again PUA brothers. Don't know if it's a right place for this topic so well, move it if it's not.
As stated above, I have a problem with my ex, or maybe she just has a problem with herself. She's a 9 with an angel voice and she's very, don't know the word, closed in herself? Introvert? She doesn't talk much, especially about feelings, she's kinda like a social Snorlax (yeah, the fat Pokemon). So, we've been dating for like 2 or 3 months, than we broke up, had some fights, chats about wasted time and being a total asshole. I gently said GTFO and about 2 years has passed. Few days ago, when she was after a party and a little bit drunk, she texted me, saying that I gave her magic, that she'd like to turn back time, to hug me right now, that she was stupid to waste it, that twas a time of her life. And what? She lives like 2km from my place, and there is completly no way for a chance to see her. She says ,,I would like to run away, lie on a grass and watch the stars, far away", and when I propose to get a beer, go for a walk, spend some time in a nice way, she's like being sick, or It's too cold, or erm... I need to do something. My point is, I don't want to jump on her right away, I just really want to see her, ask what's up, smile, drink a beer and walk her home, so what's her problem? Last night I texted her, that to be fair with me, so I won't bother myself with idea of seeing her, I asked if she actually wants to see me even a little bit? If yes, what's the problem? No? We're grown up, let me know. Well... No response since than. Any ideas what the hell is she playing? Cheers

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What happened? Easy.

Some little dude probably hurt her, and she's looking for a rebound. If she's not answering, it's probably because she cooled down and came to her senses, and/or found another dude (or maybe the same dude) to get that much needed emotional support.

But don't give in to her shit. You stand your ground like a man and don't give her any satisfaction. No, you will not go for a beer with her. No you won't walk her home. But you can listen to her, and explain why you both didn't work out in the first place. And at the same time, you escalate. This will mind fuck her. You do more pulling than pushing with exes, generally.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Hahah, Fly_Swatter, you're really good. I didn't mention that among those texts, she wrote that love doesn't exist, that love is a shit. 2 years ago she was like ,,I'm engaged! We love each other so much! We're gonna be married!". Looks like some little dude hurt her indeed. You gave me a brilliant clue, I'll try that and see what the result will be. Thanks

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Not every princess awaits her prince, for some, just being a princess is enought.