So whats the appropriate way to hit on a girl who works at a retail store at the mall?

I made an attempt a few days ago and it was a little more challenging than expected. I started off asking for her opinion on clothing in the store. She walked me around and gave me her opinion on clothing but it was difficult getting her to stop and have a conversation when she was working. Eventually i just went direct and said that she was cute and i wanted to know everything about her. She replied that she cant cus she is working. I tried to persuade her with a witty comment but she was truly busy.

So whats the best way to hit on a girl who works retail at the mall?

She is working and probably hating the fact that she is there. So asking her to show you items is going to remind her even more that she is at work; where she doesn't want to be. You don't want her associating you with work. Instead you want to create the escape. What you want to do is create a distraction from that. Ask her opinion on the best type of gift.

"Excuse me, can I ask your opinion on something really quickly, I have been rushing around all day and have to leave in a minute. I am going to my friend's girlfriend's birthday tonight. I want to buy her a gift but I am not entirely too sure of what to get her."

By asking her opinion it means she is no longer forced to feel like she is at work but instead socially interacting. Then you can lead further questions from there. Say how she looks totally fed up to be at work and you do not envy her at all.

The main thing, I guess, is to distract her from the fact she is at work.

Hey DonnyG is right, girls working in shops are bored! So you have to entertain them a little, make them laugh, flirt with them banter and such but get away from talking about work. To do this, get personal. I will ask girls things like "so is this your part time job after school?" most of the time they are at Uni or college.

Heres an example of a girl I was chatting to in a shoe shop. She was this cute girl in her early 20s and probably bored. It was only Thursday and I picked up this sazzy leapard skin heel and walk up to her and said "you know this would look really good on you" She laughed and we got talking. She asked me what I was looking for and I said "I only came in here to get warm" lol I have number closed 3 girls who worked in Shops but only dated one of them. The one I met for a date I met her in Millies Cookes at the train station. She was Nepalese and all it took was my energy in the way I said "Should I go for a cookie or muffin" apparently she liked the way I said it. So I took a risk and got her to print out a receipt and write her number on it. She complied.

Met another girl who worked in Boots the Chemist, just by asking her where the chewing gum was then cutting the thread and getting more personal about her. I got her Facebook and her number but as luck would have it she was moving that same day but still had a little Cyber sex with her on Facebook chat lol Wish it had been the real think though. Thing is turns out she wasn;t that sexually experienced and in a strange way I like a girl to have had more than one sexual encounter lol.

Today for example I was in this clothes shop and by using my humour, observational skills I was able to chat up this girl folding clothes. I noticed all the mannequins had no heads so I pointed at the female mannequinn and said to her "thats so typical, women are always losing their heads over me" She laughed and I complimentted her on the way she was folding up clothes. Wasn't that attracted to her but just thought I'd use her to warm up for the rest of my approaches today!

I was also in GAP one time and I went to try on this top in the changing room. Most of the time there is a guy or girl working there attending to people. I say to her "ok no peeking" She laughs and when I came out I said to her "You're so busted I saw you peeking, you're just pretending to fold up clothes" I got talking to her some more and number closed her. Infact I didn;t actually buy anything.

Don't do what other guys do and that is buy something they don;t need just to talk to a girl working in a shop. That is soo chode. Some of you other hardcore gamers might say DLV but call it what you want its still a pussy thing to do!

I agree with both the above posts, girls working in retail shops are normally bored! A favourite opener of mine is "I can tell exactly what you are thinking from your facial expression" she responds with "go on then, what am i thinking?" to which i reply "I wish my break would hurry up". This normally gets a chuckle! This opener works every time i use it. I then say i've got a few minutes to kill whilst my friend tries his clothes on (even if thats a lie) so i guess i could use them to keep you entertained. We then just get chatting about ourselves for a bit and after about 10 minutes i pretend i get a text and say that my friend is waiting for me outside so ask her for her number and say next time im bored ill text you and its your turn to keep me entertained Works a charm!

Zeus

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one thing that worked for me a few times is with those annoying sales women.

Some of them are really hot, but they get rejected all the time.

What you can do is pretend to be another disgruntled mall shopper, and act like you dont want to hear her perfume pitch, and then stop and listen.

Dont show any interest in HER, but in what she is selling and her pitch.

If you have a few bucks, you can wait till the last minute and say "wow, you got me, im sold"

Buy it assuming its not a rediculous price.

And then either go back another time and ask her out, or do it then.

She will feel as if her mind and her sale pitch got you to buy, even though it was her tits.

This will cause her to feel invested in you and women love being something of value beyond a pair of tits.

But the trick is to really be SOLD, not showing interest in her until the sale is made.

Ive done this about 5 times, and got dates with 3. And oddly enough, I didnt have to spend much on them, they felt like winners after they "SOLD" me.

Sorry. I am fairly new to the PUA game, but even I know that you don't buy something to win the approval of a woman. Same as you don't buy her a drink when you meet her in a bar.

Don't buy shit from her unless you actually want it. Just be direct. Tell her that you don't usually hit on girls at work, but that you'd like to get her number and maybe go out with her sometime. If she's down with it, cool. If not, then no big deal anyway since gaming employees is a long shot in the first place.

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OH?

At a bar you are buying drinks to win her approval. She takes the drink and walks away.

In this case, you are allowing her to win you over, in a way that she wants and is new to her, for her mind and salemanship. Much the same as when you dont project interest to a girl, she feels like she has to win your approval.

It's not a technique I suggest doing all the time, but it can work. Some of these hot girls are either rejected or hit on all day long. This is coming at them in a different way. Thats the premise of being different with women who get the same SPAM all the time

If you are a broke ass mo fo, dont do it.