Hey All,

About 10 months ago myself and a long term (9 years) girlfriend broke up. We're still friends and there was no hatred it just came to an end.

I've really fancied one of her friends, or I should say one of our friends for a long time. There have been a few times when we have got pretty close to one another but nothing ever happened as I was in a relationship. I think that she likes/liked (I've been out of the country for 2 years) me but she's naturally flirty and I may just have been naive.

I really want to have a shot with this girl, but I'm concerned that she will pretty much have none of it because of her friendship with my ex. I'll definitely be seeing her at some point soon and I'm looking for any tips on how to handle this situation. Or if anyone has similar experience??

Thanks in advance

Been in the same situation man, you can definitely get a lay out of it. Most if not all girls have the "oh this is so naughty because your my friends ex" thing in their head.

I've shagged my ex girlfriends best friend who kept being all "We shouldn't do this, its wrong. You're my best friends ex!" just go with the classic "I know I know...but it feels so fucking good" then just pounce on her, she'll be too turned on to say no.

Just so you know how well this works, I shagged my best friends ex girlfriend in the middle of a park and then took her home for round 2. Like your situation we always had flirty banter when I was going out with my girlfriend to the point ym girlfriend would get upset by it.

Thanks for the reply! It sounds positive but I think it could get a bit messy. Still that ain't gonna stop me

How can I escalate our meeting between friends to the pull? I've been out of this stuff for ages and this is certainly a delicate case! We're both going to be living in London and my ex is out of the frame in another city.

Thanks.

This is the EASIEST part of gaming because by the end of it you will know if shes up for it or not. The only difficultly is having the courage to do it.

If your both moving to london and you don't already know people there just hit her up with a

"Oi loner, in the same boat. Lets hit the drinks, have fun and socialise!"

Then go out drinking, as soon as you meet her hug her, and all night keep touching her. Just touch her hand every so often when your talking. Move her hair out of the way then escalate as the night continues. Dance with her then escalate to dirty dancing then just tell her you want her tonight.

Don't overcomplicate/overthing things when dealing with women. That just leads to failure just go with the route that will most likely end up with you fucking her aka TELLING HER.

She's already living in London and I will be moving down there. But I will hit her up for a meeting sometime.

I appreciate the simplicity of your suggestion but as we're just friends who haven't seen each other for a while I can't see the night escalating to dancing etc. I'll see what I can do though. I didn't really wanna make our meeting just a drinking event but maybe it's for the best.